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Facts about Long Distance Relationships

The facts about long distance relationships are that you need to put in extra efforts to make it work. No matter what the distance is, the key to sustaining a long distance relationship is to bridge the gap. While it may not be possible to come and visit your partner every weekend if you stay really far, there are several other ways through which you can sustain this relationship. Another fact about long distance relationship is that you must realize that there are some dos and don'ts, for such a relationship. If you want your relationship to sustain the test of time and distance, you must adhere to some of them.


Both the partners must be equally willing to make this relationship work out and only then, it can be successful. If the relationship is pretty well established before it becomes a long distance one, it can become comparatively easier to maintain. Since the couple has dated for a considerable amount of time, they know each other better and there is a strong bond of trust. The responsibility of sustaining the relationship should not rest with just one person. The couple must alternately visit one another, and help in keeping the relationship alive.


Be realistic

When you begin a long distance relationship, you must be practical. So, this means that if you happen to encounter any problem, your partner might not be there physically to help you out. Of course, you can talk to him/her for mental support and advice, but at the end of the day you will have to deal with it on your own.


Don't take the relationship lightly

Since your partner is not around, it does not mean that you can take this relationship lightly or for granted. You must treat your partner fairly and whenever you have to take any decisions regarding the relationship, he/ she must have an equal say in this. So, be sure to talk about it with your partner, if and when required.


Life of your own

When you are in a long distance relationship, it is very important to have a life of our own. Your partner stays in another city or town, so you have to make sure that you go out with friends and have a good time. Whenever your partner is in town, you will definitely spend that time with them, but before that enjoy with your friends and loved ones.


Effective communication

Since you will not be able to meet up frequently like the other couples, it is very important to have an effective communication method in place. In this age of technology the internet and telephone is a very good means for being in touch. Timings of communication need to be fixed, especially if you and your partner live in different continents.

How to sustain a long distance relationship is entirely up to the couple in question. Of course, there are some harsh facts about long distance relationships, but if you love your partner and put in enough effort, there is no reason that the relationship cannot be successful.
 


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