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Attracted to Him…but Attracted to Him Too! What to do if You’re Struggling to Decide Between Two Guys
Stuck Between Two Guys
You really like him. He makes you laugh, he’s completely fun to be around, and he’s also kind as well, providing a shoulder to cry on whenever you need it.

However, you also really like him. By which we mean the other him. The mysterious, brooding, deeply attractive guy who makes you feel like a million dollars whenever you’re with him. He’s mad, bad and a bit dangerous to know, but to be honest, that really adds to his seriously irresistible appeal.

The big question is: Which one do you pick? They’re both really into you, and you don’t want to lead either of them on. So which one should you select to be your boyfriend?

Making the Right Choice: How to Choose Between Two Men

It’s never easy choosing between two men, especially if you find that they both offer you different things; one offering security, fun and affection, the other offering powerful attraction and excitement.

Here are a few things to consider before you make your choice.

Is he likely to ‘go the distance’? If you’re looking for long-term love, it’s important to go for the man that also wants the same thing, otherwise you could find yourself in the unpleasant situation of ending up with neither of them.

What’s most important to you? Think about what you want from a relationship, then you’ll be in a better position to figure out which man offers those things to you. If it helps, make a list. It should really help to get things clear in your mind.

Ask your friends. Few people know you as well as your friends do. Ask them for their honest opinion about the two men. It may turn out that they see these guys in a completely different light to you, and may help you to gain better understanding as to which is the guy for you.

Whatever you do, don’t act hastily, or without giving it proper thought. It’s tempting to act on instinct at times, and to let our hearts rule our heads, but this isn’t always the best approach to take.