What To Do If Your Lover Breaks Your Trust
Trust is the foundation of every relationship. Two people fall in love when they start trusting each other more than anyone else in this world. If a person trusts you with anything and everything, you should try every minute not to break that trust and try to maintain it. Once the trust gets hampered, it leads to cracks in the bond of love that tend to weaken the relationship.
These are the basic rules that every lover should follow when he/she is in a relationship with someone. If you have someone who loves you more than his/her life, you should be thankful for being blessed 'cuz its very difficult to find true love these days. A person is just accountable for his/her actions and deeds and not anyone else's. So even if you are totally dedicated to your lover, there isn't a surety that even your partner is going to reciprocate your feelings in the same proportion.
It hurts a lot when the person you love the most breaks your trust. But it certainly isn't the end of this world. If you have been hit by this painful phase of betrayal, this article is a must read for you. Read through to find out what you need to do if your lover breaks your trust and how you can cope up with this difficult phase and yet emerge as a winner.
Motivate Yourself : It's his/her loss, not yours
When your trust gets broken, the world seems to come to an end. Everything becomes negative! The first step to help yourself get out of this adverse situation is by inspiring yourself. You need to motivate yourself and find the silver lining on this dense dark cloud of betrayal. It will be difficult but not impossible. Remind yourself that it isn't your loss at all but your lover's loss because he/she lost someone who loved him/her like fools!
Indulge in some hobbies
Try and divert your mind by taking up new hobbies. Indulge in activities like dancing, sports or any other thing that interests you. This will help you focus on things other than those painful memories. Try yoga and meditation classes where they help you restore the peace by enchanting God's name. This will pacify your soul and help the heart heal must faster.
Spend time with family and friend
When you are in love, your lover becomes everything for you. He/she becomes even more important than your family and friends. Now that you have been betrayedby the one you love, don't hesitate in going back to your own people. Spend time with your family as they the ones who will love you always and will never ever leave you alone, come what may! Vent out the pain by sharing it with your close friends or siblings. This will help you feel much lighter and speed up the recovery of the wounded heart.
End all communication with him/her
Once you have already been fooled, it just doesn't make any sense to let the same person hurt you again. If your lover has cheated on you, he/she just doesn't deserve you anymore. End all communication with him/her. Don't answer his/her phone calls or text messages. Let him/her realize what he/she has lost. I am sure, he/she will regret this mistake in the long run because losing someone who loves you truly, madly, deeply is a loss that's irrecoverable.
Give yourself time
Don't rush yourself through the recovery process. Everything takes time and so will this pain to get cured. But, it certainly will get alright! Give yourself enough time to get over this phase of sadness and despair. At times, you may miss him/her and feel bad about everything, but relax, it's perfectly fine. Things will start falling in place and very soon, you will see yourself as a totally new person with new dimension in life.
Author : Amanpreet Kaur
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