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What to do if your boyfriend isn't giving you much time

Posted on :2013-04-05 in

Are you upset and feeling ignored because your lover cannot give much time to you? Is your heart aching because he is always occupied with other things that deprive you of the time that he must be giving you rather than spending on the other things?

If you consistently keep hearing that he's busy with work or friends, then it's a clear cut signal that you are losing your worth in the relationship. There are probably some other things that have taken a place higher than you in his list of priorities. Due to such situations, a feeling of unwantedness will gradually creep in which ultimately will lead to the decay of the relationship.

Time is a vital ingredient that goes into nurturing any relationship taking it to its zenith of success. If you are undergoing this difficult phase of being ignored by your lover, you need to read through the following points that will help you make him realize that it's high time and he should better take things seriously before they go out of hand.

Tell him about your feelings

Tell him that you need to talk to him about something really serious. Talk to him about the way you have been feeling. Make an explicit mention of the unwanted feeling that’s taking over you. Let him know that you are losing it because you are just not getting adequate time that you should be given. It’s your right!
 

What to do if your boyfriend isn't giving you much time

Make him realize your worth

You are in a relationship because you both love each other. A relationship cannot succeed if you keep ignoring your partner or take him/her for granted. It’s not easy to find someone who loves you truly. So if you have one, value them else someone else will come and appreciate what you have always ignored! Tell him that you are just not happy with the way things are going. And if he really loves you, he should be able to make time for you no matter what.

Ask him what he wants

If he’s ignoring you or not giving you much time there might be a possibility that he’s thinking of breaking up with you. There may be some new relationships or engagements that may be taking his attention. Ask him to be honest and tell you if he wants to get over with this relationship. Why should you suffer if he’s enjoying with someone else!

Understand his problems

If he gives you genuine reasons why he is being unable to take out much time for you and if it’s just for some time, then try and understand his situation. Cope up with his situation if its only for “some” time. But if it’s of a permanent nature, it’s definitely time to resort to some serious action!

Don’t get too clingy

If you really want to know whether he wants this relationship as badly as you want it, try getting a little less clingy. Don’t flood his mobile with sms or calls. Let him realize with time what he’s staking. Create a little distance by not calling him or messaging him as frequently as you used to. Don’t do those things, like good morning or good night calls or texts, that have become a part of your daily routine. Make him miss these little actions of your love and concern. If he loves you truly, he will very soon realize where he was going wrong.

Conclusion

You should never hurt the one who loves you because loving things is easy but loving people is difficult yet not impossible. A true relationship is one that passes through all these tests of time and still succeeds. Everyone in this world is busy..it’s how you decide on your priorities and make time for them. Realize this before it gets too late.
 

Author : Amanpreet Kaur

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