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How to Avoid Saying I Love You

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The idea of saying three little words - "I love you" often evokes anxiety in the hearts of lovers. Men and women alike dread confessing that they are in love often due to a number of reasons.

Sometimes, people do not say these words because they fear rejection and at other times, it is also not said because they themselves are not sure of how exactly they feel. The three ominous words are often left unsaid because some people fear getting into any kind of commitment and are afraid that speaking these words can arouse the other person’s expectations from them.

Whatever may be the reason but if you too wish to avoid saying I love you then you can take some tips from here to help you put across your point without hurting someone badly.

Express Appreciation without committing to love the other person

Pay nice compliments about the other person instead of saying "I love you" when you find yourself under pressure to admire or acknowledge those trying to squeeze out those words from our mouth. Showing appreciation for someone’s good deed will be enough to reflect that efforts of catching your attention have not gone unnoticed. However, you are under no obligation to speak out the three ominous words.
 

Ways To Avoid Saying I Love You

Put on a avoidance gear

In the situation when someone professes his or her love for you and you get a little uncomfortable to give a suitable reply that time then it is best to deflect the topic. You can say the other person about your need to give some time to think about hi/her proposal. Bring in another topic to talk about in order to avoid ending the conversation in an abrupt note. Distracting the other person by showing him something else or bringing in another topic can also help you avoid saying “I love you”.

Be honest about your feelings

If you are not yet ready to speak out those three important words then put across your feelings towards the other person honestly. You can avoid speaking those three ominous words but show the other person the reason for not saying so. Tell him/her that you do care about his/her feelings but you are a little confused as to whether you feel the same as he/she does.

Act Coy

You have just heard the three words from someone who has been dear to you but you are not sure of your feelings then you can avoid saying I love you by being a little coy and appearing shy. Blush and show the other person that you are shy of saying those words. Observe a few minutes of silence once you hear those words and look into the eyes of your mate. Let the eyes do the talking and leave the other person guessing about your feelings.

Give A Hug

It is a good idea to resort to the act of physical affection if you want to avoid saying I love you. Give a hug or kiss the person while changing the subject.
 

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