Top 10 Ways for Your Crush to Notice You...
Do you have a major crush on someone?
School day crushes to workplace crushes, if you are pining after a pretty face all you want is for that person to notice you.
Here are the top 10 ways to get that hottie crush to look your way!
Confidence is the most attractive feature you can show. Even if you don’t feel confident you can fake it until you make it. Hold your head up high, smile, and try to relax. Many of us aren’t at our confidence peak unless we are really feeling good about ourselves. In this case, do what makes you feel good. Sweat to a great workout so that you feel pumped, hang out with your best friends that make you feel good about yourself, or anything else that makes you feel on top. Beware of bragging however, confidence is sexy, but bragging, showing off and such behavior is just asking for some humbling.
Impress with Your Dress and Grooming
If you want to impress your crush then you must be dressed for the occasion. Don’t suddenly morph into styles that aren’t “you”, but don’t wear your ugliesy “comfortable” clothes either. On days you know you are going to see your crush, get up early so you aren’t rushed, take a shower, use body scrub and do any rituals that help you feel good. Paint your nails if you are a girl, lightly spray on some cologne if you are a guy. Make sure you have good hygiene by brushing and flossing. These may sound like silly, simple things, but you will be surprised how much better you feel when everything about you is groomed to the best.
Smile and Make Eye Contact
Confidence pared with a smile is a winning combination, and can really get you noticed if you play it up with a little bit of flirty eye contact. Don’t stare at your crush, or you may scare the poor dear off! However, a quick glance, a shy smile, and looking away can be all it takes to get their attention peaked.
Talk to Them
It may feel like this magnificent person is on a pedestal far above you…but believe it or not, he or she is just another human being. Imagine if the situation were reversed and a cute person was “crushing” on you. Wouldn’t you want him/her to come talk to you? A simple hello and a smile can be a good start, but if you want it to grow from there, you may want to come up with a few “icebreakers” before you approach them. Is there a new teacher, a new boss, or some change about which you can strike up an easy conversation?
Compliment the Person
If nothing else, think of a genuine compliment, something nice, true, and not “creepy”. Compliment the person on something he/she accomplished. You can even find a quality or achievement to mention that others may not notice, such as shoes or new haircut. Everyone appreciates a genuine compliment, and it is surely one way to get the person’s attention.
That’s right, it is time to flirt with your crush! If you want people to notice you, a little light flirting is a great way to do it. Flirt with your body language. Lean in a little closer to them when they speak, lightly touch their arm if you are emphasizing a point, laugh at their jokes, and of course, don’t forget your smile.
Seek Out Time to Spend Together
Be careful not to be too obvious in this step. If they are part of a group and it interests you, why not join? Or better yet, ask your crush about it and then say you may join. This will give you more to talk about, and if you do join the group or other activity you will see each other more often and get to spend more time together in a group setting.
Get with the Times
If you can, add your crush on Facebook or other social sites. Be careful with this step and don’t add the person if you have never spoken to him/her before. If you have talked, or if you have friends of friends, this is a good way to break the ice, and perhaps subtly flirt a bit more. If you know this darling well enough to get a phone number, you can also send friendly text messages. Don’t abuse any of these privileges; just keep things fun and light at the start.
Be Bold, be Brave, Ask Them Out
If you have smiled, flirted, and got the vibe that your crush may be interested, why not ask him/her out? It can be very scary when there is a possibility for rejection, but in the end, if you are both too shy to act nothing will ever come of it. At least you will know if there is a possibility. You don’t even have to formally ask the person out—you can simply invite him/her to an event with or without the group of friends.
Everyone wants their crush to reciprocate affection, but never sacrifice who you are over a crush. Remain true to yourself, as you want your crush to like you for who you really are so that you don’t have to live a charade. Everyone is on their best behavior and it is natural that you want to impress, but if you are saying you like things that you hate, or changing your style, in the end you won’t be happy. Even if you do “win” your crush, you will have to live a lie. Be yourself, laugh, have a good time, and people will naturally be drawn to you.
Getting your crush to notice you can be as easy as having confidence and saying hello. Build on it from there every time you see the person. If you aren’t sure when you will see him or her again, why not make the brave move and just ask your beloved out on a date? That crush could turn into a significant other in no time!
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