Understanding Relationships: Mashups & Patchups
It is a fact that relationships between opposite sex often become complicated when they don't understand what they actually feel about each other. Is it just an infatuation, care, a long lasting companionship or just a short fling which will fade out with time? Gosh! It is extremely difficult to figure out the intensity of one’s relationship and Interestingly, life gives us many situations that become the battlefield for our mind and heart.
Here are some instances from which we can learn:
Poor soul! You developed a big crush on someone, who is your colleague or a classmate. He is your friend and you like him a lot since day one. All of a sudden you get to know that he is committed to another girl. Oops! you got that mild heartache. But somewhere down the line, you feel good about the fact that he flirts with you and likes you a little more than his girlfriend.
But, what you should do in this situation?
Well, here you need to act smart instead of melting down due to his sweet flirtatiousness. If he likes you genuinely and wants you by his side, he will end all the ties with his present girlfriend. In case he fails to discontinue his other relationships, he is not worth your attention. Secondly, you must be aware about his intentions, basic nature and background.
Knowing these aspects are important because, a characterless jerk in life can mess up your future entirely.
Apart from this, do not fail to judge the nature of his flirting. Frankly, there is no harm in being a flirt, if it is not creating any discomfort to others. Sometimes, people cross the line of decency while flirting and then, it becomes annoying for most of the girls. A filthy flirting can be a big turnoff, even if you are being targeted by your friend.
On the other hand, if you are lovestruck for a friend and he too shows interest in you through this popular channel called flirting, control your emotions for while. yes, you heard it right. We understand that you are totally bowled over by his persona, but does he seems genuine to you? Do he cares about your emotions? Is he taking you seriously as a friend and not crossing his limits? If the answer for all the above mentioned things is in positive, you can take things further with the guy happily.
People who have experienced the feeling of being in love, will never stand anyone who is trying to woo their partner. There are many instances in life when a third person create hurdles in life of couples who are happy in their own shell. It can either be a girl chasing a committed guy or vice-versa. Honestly, one should completely avoid these practices as this will not benefit anyone’s life. We must understand that life is not about just having fun. Even if you wish to have fun, make sure it isn't costing anyone’s happiness.
Caught your boyfriend red-handed with another girl? Well, this can surely be the most heart-wrenching situation for any couple in love. Finding out your partner straying on others is like a danger zone situation for any relationship. It is the time when you realize that there is no lost love between the two. However, a benefit of doubt can be given in some cases when you are not sure about the sensitivity of the situation. But in most cases, the other half must take a step forward and cut themselves out from this fake relationship. Remember, don't lose your heart if you ever get betrayed. As they say, everything happens for a reason and let the reason be you. So stay happy, stay positive.
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