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Top 5 Turn Offs For Men

Posted on :2013-04-11 in
Have you found your dream man? Do you love him like crazy and don't wanna loose him ever? If you just can't think of being without your man in this lifetime and want to be with him forever, take care of the following 5 points that are the top 5 turnoffs for any man. Be cautious of your behaviour when you are with him and don't exhibit any of the following if you don't want your man to get pissed off and pull away from you.
 
#1 : Don't talk about your ex
 
Men hate it when they are compared to their girlfriend's ex. They just can't tolerate the mention of any random guy who was your past because it ignites the male ego and makes them feel lesser than that guy. If you don't want your guy to get mad at you because of someone who couldn't make it to your present, don't ever talk about your ex in front of your lover. Even if at times you feel that in some matters your ex was better than your current man, bury this thought within yourself only.
 
Top 5 Turn Offs For Men

 

#2 : Don't try to dominate him
 
Do this, do that! Men hate such statements. They just can't bear it when someone tries to control their guy time. You just can't give out ultimatums to you man because this is a big turnoff for men. Men love independence as much as women. So, don't try and dominate your man. Give him adequate space and time for himself so that he doesn't feel suffocated being in a relationship with you. Treat him as an equal and you'll see the relationship flourishing. Try to sit on his head and see how he shakes to get rid of you and the relationship within seconds. Beware!
 
#3 : Don't get too clingy
 
We understand that you love him and want to be with him forever. But if you press your man too hard to keep calling you every five minutes and give validations of the relationship, it will have adverse effects on your bond of love. Don't flood his mobile with endless texts and then, get upset if he fails to reply to them. Don't keep crying over the phone or try to blackmail him emotionally. If you try to impose this relationship on him, he'll be put off which in turn would lead to the decay of your love story.
 
#4 : Exaggerated Whining
 
Excess of everything is bad. Same is the case with relationships. Complaining once in a while is normal but if you keep whining over every petty issue, your man will go bonkers. If you keep complaining continuously for every damn reason, he will start moving away from you.  No man would like to be with a woman who keeps whining everytime. Be a little more empathetic with him as that will help you understand him better and avoid or lessen the occurences of such incidents.
 
#5 : Trying to change him
 
You fell in love with your man because of what he was to you then why would you want to change him! This is exactly what would be going on in your lover's mind when you try to change him. Don't ask him to come out of his comfort zone just because you want it. It irritates a man when his woman tries to change him just because she feels that the new way of doing things would be better. Everyone has a different viewpoint and perspective which needs to be respected by their partner. Don't push him into taking up new mannerisms or ways of looking at things. He will be turned off because he's not a kid and would not like you to be his mother. 
 
These are the top 5 turnoffs for men that can trigger negativity and induce bitterness in the relationship. If you really want to give a fairy tale ending to your love story, keep these 5 points at the back of your mind so that you don't put off your lover and finally end up losing him.
 
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