So, the time for that special moment has finally come! You have decided to kiss her! If this is the first time you are going to kiss your sweetie, you'll need some serious help so that you don't spoil the magic of the much awaited first kiss because of your nervousness.
First kiss holds a lot of importance and can make or break a relationship. It has to be passionate enough to express the depth of your love but subtle enough not to project you as a desperate boyfriend who just wants to get physical.
First kiss is special and should be given in a way that makes your girlfriend feel proud of being your lady! It should be seasoned with love, respect, warmth and the passion to make this relationship eternal. Read through these 10 tips on how to kiss a girl for the first time and gear up to make the first lip lock memorable for both of you.
#1 : Avoid Bad Breath
When you are on a date with her & have a plan of ending the romantic evening with a kiss, make sure you don't order dishes that have loads of garlic or onion in them as that can make you smell horrible which in turn would kill the spirit of that magical moment. Carry some mint and gums with you as that will help you in having a good breath which is definitely a pre-requisite when you think about that first kiss.
#2 : Don't Embarrass Her
If you know that your girl is a little shy, don't attempt to kiss her at a public place. This will just cause her embarrassment and make her mad at you. So, if you don't want her to feel uncomfortable, don't indulge in PDAs, please!
# 3 : Timing is important
It’s okay to be a little excited for your first kiss, but don't just jump onto your girl the moment you meet and start kissing. This will act as a repellent for you. Wait for that moment when you should kiss rather than looking for opportunities when you can kiss. When you notice an intimate eye contact establishing, that's the perfect moment to go for it!
# 4 : Best Kisses are stolen
The previous tip says that you need to time it perfect but that doesn't mean that you need to seek her permission. When you are in love, the eyes express the intent of the heart. Don't ask her if you can kiss her, steal it, but carefully. You need to convey your intentions through romantic gestures like a sensuous look in your eyes that switches from her eyes to her lips, then back to her eyes and so on. Biting your lower lip can be an instant turn on for your girlfriend to let her know that tonight, she will be kissed in a way she's never been kissed before!
#5 : Relax
This is the most important of all. I understand that it's natural to get nervous but you'll need to hide these fears if you don't want to spoil it. If you act panicky in front of her, you'll totally mess up everything. It's better to relax yourself and enjoy the moment. It's your first kiss, make it special. Relax and kiss her in a way that touches her heart.
#6 : The Touch
Just as I said, timing is important, you can't just start kissing her while you are in a conversation with her about something. It's important to convey your intent through some signs. Give her those goosebumps by gently putting your hand on her waist and pull her closer. Look into her eyes as run your fingers through her hair. Hold her face with your hands and start by kissing her cheeks, then her nose, then the forehead and finally, her candy lips! Amp up the effect by caressing her back with your hands while you both indulge in that much awaited lip lock.
#7 : Close your eyes
When you finally start kissing her, you'll need to end that intense eye contact because keeping your eyes open during a kiss is considered to be rude. If you keep staring at her with your eyes wide open , she might feel weird and insecure. I am sure that's not what you want to convey, right? So, better shut your eyes, get lost in the moment and enjoy!
#8 : Don't bite
It's a kiss and not a love bite that you are going to give, keep this in mind when you lean towards her. Just imagine as if your girlfriend is your wife who's sleeping like an innocent baby. Now tell me, would you wanna disturb her by biting her or just enjoy that priceless moment by loving her with gentle rub of your lips? I hope you got my message, be gentle and start by rubbing your lips on her lips. Don't start biting her lips as this may hurt her sentiments and sever the true essence of a first kiss. Kindle the passion by pressing your lips against her. Let her feel your love and not take you as an animal who bites.
#9 : Mind your tongue
So you can't control yourself and are now thinking of playing with the tongue? It's fine, but you'll need to watch your tongue so that you don't take it deep till her throat as that may make her choke. If you wanna add some spice, use the tongue to tease her. Roll it in her mouth once and then withdraw it. This will make her hungry and leave her wanting for more!
#10 : Don't Dribble
When two people kiss, their mouths come in contact which means there will be a tasting session of saliva’s, which is perfectly fine. But if you keep slobbering during the kiss, it will piss her off. Don't get yourself drooling all over the place because this will make you lose the essence of this ecstatic moment.
These were ten useful tips on how to kiss a girl for the first time. If you want to make your first kiss much more than just a kiss, you'll need to relax and follow these points. A kiss should be such that touches her heart and steals it for you. You should kiss your girlfriend in a way that leaves her thinking about the majestic moment for days. It should make her crave for one such lip lock every time you meet. So, if you really want to make her hungry, keep these points in mind when you set the stage for your first kiss.
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