Men are typically fond of their freedom and personal space. Although it is an average rule but when our boyfriends ask for the same we get confused and land on a fight.
This mutual disagreement turns into bitterness and it results in mutual bitterness and tension in the relationship. However this can be prevented if the issue is dealt meticulously.
Here go 10 tips to deal with a boyfriend who wants more space.
Understand his requirement
Unless you will understand his requirement, you will not be able to grant him the extra space he is demanding. You have to realize that he has a vast part of individual preference left apart from being your boyfriend. Once you will realize the demand of this individuality, you can easily accept his demand. Allowing him to enjoy more space means you are allowing him to nourish his personality.
Be his friend
If you act as a mere girlfriend, you may not able to realize the legitimacy of his demand. But if you act here as his friend, you will be able to gauge his requirement. Being a good listener and being compassionate about his personal demand will help you in understanding his personal requirement. On the other hand your understanding nature will surely emphasize your sincerity toward him.
Try to reciprocate his emotions
Sometimes we fail to understand the impetus behind manly emotion and we cannot relate to their requirement of space. But once you start reciprocating his emotional ups and down sincerely. You will be able to understand his mentality as well. This will surely help you in to realize his demand for extra space, and surprisingly you will be able to grant him that facility.
Remember your old days when he had fallen for you. Try to retain those charms and qualities, which made you once irresistible to him. He will find his old flame in you. If some how he would have felt regularized with you, the twist and swirl of your magnetic charm will bring his closer and he will not demand for his so called extra space.
Do not get involved in his friend circle
Maintain this much distance. It will be a sensible approach toward his privacy as well as a sign of your requirement of freedom as well. On the other hand his friends will not take you granted or they will not treat you in a carefree way. This little self imposed distance will make him aware of your presence in his life. He will be back you very often to enjoy your company.
Don’t be nagging
Never ever be nagging. Instead try to find a good hobby for you. Take real interest in gardening, reading. You can make some quality friends as well. Once you will find yourself engaged in ample quality activities and interaction, you will not be complaining about his extra space because by that time you could have created your extra space as well.
Respect his demand
You must respect his requirement of freedom. For that you have to trust him. Mutual trust, love, and understanding can build an excellent bond between you too. You will feel secured and he will feel secured too. This craving for extra space will gradually go down, which is again a win-win situation for you.
Work on your bad habits
You must know your bad habits. You have to work on these follies This self introspection will surely enhance your acceptability and emphasize on your adjustability. Your boyfriend will realize your impartial nature and will feel double secured. Once he will feel at ease with you nature and your attitude, he will hardly crave for his “extra space”.
Do not suspect
You may have suspicion on your boy friend because of his overtly demand for extra space, but practice restrain. Try to reason the situation. On the other hand, try to trust his good self. Do not lodge fighting unless you find something concrete proof in your grasp. In case you find some suspicion theme also, do not create a drama, but ask him clarification maintaining your dignity. This will keep your profile high.
Men often try to find out their mother in their girl friend. Your boyfriend is not an exception. Once you will take care of him, he will try to confide in you. Once he will start confiding you, he will consider you as his support point. No matter whatever extra space he asks for, he will be back to you when he will finish his fun and game with friends. Here you win the game with 10 tips to deal with a boyfriend who wants more space.
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