Tips on How to Get a Boyfriend - Where to Look for the Perfect Boyfriend
Are you discouraged in the game of love lately? Are you not finding any serious prospects? Then one reason for this misfortune could be that you are “looking for love in all the wrong places”, just like the song tells us. The bottom line is that you will get back precisely what you put into a project.
So yes, if you are looking for quality, boyfriend material in bars, you are unlikely to find your perfect man. You go for cheap and easy matchmaking and are surprised when all the guys you find are just looking for cheap and easy sex? You date a nice guy from work but feel no attraction…when you knew all along what he was like and what his conversational style would be.
Simply put, it’s time that we start growing up a little and begin understanding that we always get what we pay for in life. You cannot ask for something monumental without working hard—and more specifically looking in a place where “monumental” can be found.
Think Realistically About Where Mister Right is Located
Where is Mister Right, anyway? Your first goal in locating a good man is to determine who he is, what he does and where you are most likely to find him. For instance, let’s say a woman is religious and is looking for a marriage partner. If she is a pragmatic thinker, then she knows that what she wants is unlikely to be found in a club or bar, since the lifestyles don’t really mesh.
On the other hand, going to church or taking part in a charity event may introduce her to a guy worthwhile—someone who matches her own lifestyle and personality. The same is true of any type of relationship, speaking of casual or long-term. You must go to the places where your ideal match might be located. Their thinking abilities draw them to this place; what they put inside their minds shapes who they are and what they do.
The Most Common Places to Meet Guys
Besides bars and clubs, the most common places to meet singles are gyms, electronics stores, the office, libraries or bookstores and concerts. Right away, you can see that personality and location are linked tightly. An educated man might prefer a library or bookstore to a bar, while a comic book enthusiast is far likelier to be seen at a costume convention or comic book and sports card store than on the dog walk in the park.
So ask yourself, are you really looking for a man that will match you in the locations you attend? One common alternative to the destructive dating pattern of settling for guys that are convenient to you is to take your search online. Using an online matching service can help you filter out wrong types, focus attention on common interest singles, and find you a matching lifestyle. There are also different styles of dating sites, so once again, doing homework as regards your wants and needs is essential.
You can meet a great boyfriend, one that you deserve, but you must take the initiative to find him and attract his attention. Fortunately, you’re beautiful! So let’s try and see what happens…
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