When you are in that initial stage of dating, it can be hard to tell just how serious a guy is about you and your relationship. Sure he calls and you go out, and he is saying all the right things, but in all honesty men will do a lot for a chance to get lucky with a girl. This is a problem if you want a future, not a one night stand. Here are 10 signs that tell you a man is serious about you.
He calls and texts you often.
If most of these calls and texts are in the wee hours of the morning, and are mostly about what you are wearing or other sexy topics, they don’t really count as a sign he is serious. If however he calls you for no reason at all, or just to talk about his day or little incidents in it, it is a good sign he is serious as he wants to share the little details with you.
There are no signs of mind games
This one can be harder to spot. If he says he will call tomorrow, does he? If he makes a date with you, is he on time? Does he bounce from hot and cold towards you? A lack of mind games and power plays is another good sign that this is not a casual thing.
He asks for your opinion on things
From small things like where you want to go, to big things like his career, if he asks for your opinion and listens, he is serious about you!
He wants you to meet his friends
This is a big one. Most guys do not introduce causal flings to their friends. For the most part if he wants you to meet his buddies, he is serious about you. If he introduces you to his family, then stop all your questioning on seriousness.
He makes future plans with you
We aren’t talking about plans for next weekend, we are talking about plans for the holidays, vacations, important events. If he is making plans with you for an event a month from now, it is a good sign he is serious.
Time apart doesn’t weaken things
It is good if a business trip away, or a holiday away doesn’t show signs you are "out of sight out of mind". Did he call you while he was gone? Make plans when he first got back? Seem excited to see you again?
When guys stay on their good behavior over time, and still open doors and do other nice things long after the first initial dates, take it as a good sign.
You know his routine
Guys who aren’t serious often like to keep their daily routines to themselves, as they can then use a made up excuse to get out of things. A guy who is an open book about his life means he really does like you.
Going past casual conversations
If you have gone past casual conversations and into the deeper things, such as what you see for yourself in the future, your religious beliefs and the like, take it as a good sign.
He is there for you
When the road of life gets bumpy, is he still there for you? Is he the shoulder you have cried on when bad events happen? Another great sign this is a serious thing.
Can guys pull off all of the above and still not be serious? Unfortunately, yes. Even if all signs are pointing to go, always trust your gut instincts. If something doesn’t feel right, take your time before going all in. Anyone who is serious about you will know you are worth a wait.
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