10 Signs She Just Wants to Be Friends
Hey you, you the guy who’s smiling wide thinking you got it made because you’re always hanging out with your “girl friend”. That’s right, your friend that happens to be a girl. Maybe she secretly likes you. Maybe you’re waiting for her, or waiting for just the right moment to ask her out. Well guess what, brother?
You’re walking into the friend zone! The friend zone refers to a place that no man wants to go…that special place where women categorize and banish men as unattractive, un-dateable and even worse, “nice guys.” Not that there’s anything wrong with being nice…but I think you know how emasculating that is to hear in a conversation!
Just in case you’re wondering, here are 10 sure signs that something is amiss. If you notice any of these ten symptoms then bolt out of the friend zone ASAP!
She tells you what a good FRIEND you are.
Most girls will never say this to a guy they are attracted to. They’re more likely to say something like “we’re JUST friends,” this time self-imposing their own behavior, as if to say although I am attracted…I’m not letting myself get too close.
She encourages you to date other people or wants to fix you up.
Yeah, don’t misinterpret this as some psycho chick jealousy issue. If she is encouraging you to date other people, she is definitely not considering you dating material herself!
She doesn’t get dolled up.
She looks plain, average, au naturel in the face. Her fashion sense is strange. That’s because she doesn’t care what you think of her. Wrong place to be!
She talks about other guys in front of you.
Another dead giveaway. If she had any interest in you at all, she would not disrespect you in this way. She’s not challenging you…she really is oblivious to your feelings.
She doesn’t let you pay.
Very defensive behavior, as if to say, “This is not a date! What do you think you’re doing?” Women who aren’t interested insist on paying for themselves.
She doesn’t try to make herself look good.
And that means she’s generally on her worst behavior. Meaning she’s not shy about eating out, cracking jokes, getting loud with her girlfriends and so on.
There are no awkward silences.
This is a sure sign of sexual tension. If you never seem to have any awkward tension with her that means your loving is the farthest thing from her mind!
She goes out of her way not to be seen with you in public.
As in, a “date.” The very thought is repulsive and sends her several feet away from your comfort zone. She might even avoid going places where only she and you are scheduled to attend.
Whenever the subject of you and her comes up (usually by accident) she either laughs hysterically or looks like she wants to throw up.
You’re not even worth discussing “relationships” with.
If you haven’t discussed anything about dating, or any hypothetical “would you go out with me if…?” chances are, you’re the last thing on her mind.
Get out of the friend zone and run for your life!
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