The game of love is tough to play, no matter how experienced you are at it.
When you are in a relationship, learning to decode all of a woman’s body language can be tough, especially if you are looking for signs that convey that she is losing interest in you.
Though having a direct conversation should get you the full story, this list of seven different characteristics will give you a good impression of whether you are on the outs without even having to ask.
Signs She's On Her Way Out
She Is Hard to Get a Hold Of
Women thrive on communication. In fact, if you took a poll, most of them would probably say a constant stream of calls and texts throughout the day from the man they love is preferable. (Not a message per minute, per se, but periodic contact.) If you hardly hear from the girl you are dating, it’s likely because she has ceased caring about if you are thinking of her – a very bad sign.
She Stops Coming Up With Things to Do Together
When a girl is in love, she cannot wait to spend more time with her guy and she will think about new experiences the two of you can have at a seemingly lightning-fast pace. She’ll suggest pottery classes or trips to the antique store or movie nights on the couch – anything to get you guys alone. If this stream of activities begins to wane, she might be looking for someone else to pull close.
She Begins Spending More Time with Her Friends
Men, when they are in a relationship, like to integrate their sweethearts into the group of guys they hang out with. Women, on the other hand, tend to put their friends aside and focus on their lovers. So, if she’s telling you “I’m going to have drinks with the girls” or “I made plans to go shopping with Katie” without seeing what you think first, she is pulling away.
She Starts Picking Fights
Even though it is really terrible to be the person who gets left behind, breaking up with someone is really hard to do. When one person knows the relationship is coming to an end, he or she will begin to find even the smallest things to blow up about. In general, this is a subconscious mechanism to initiate ill will from the other person, a quirk of human nature that makes it easier to say, “We’re finished.”
She Avoids Affection
Even the most frigid of individuals will find a way to connect physically with a sweetheart, whether by holding hands or lunging in for a passionate kiss. Much like the tendency to want to spend time as a couple, a woman who is emotionally attached seeks out affection. If you notice your girlfriend is less and less engaging when it comes to touch, you have stumbled upon a clue that her feelings are waning.
She Doesn’t Talk Like There’s a Future
As a relationship begins to get more serious, you will find your conversations turn toward planning out how life will look years and years down the road. You’ll talk about children, where you want to live, what kinds of dogs you’d like to own – everything. When this kind of forward-thinking talk is absent, it means she isn’t looking very far ahead at all.
She Acts Bored
This is one of the most basic cues you can find in any human being: the eyes and attention are always elsewhere. Is she playing with her phone? Does she seem to be looking everywhere but at you as you speak? How often do you end up having to repeat yourself? Though you may find it rude (it is), you must come to grips with the fact that she just doesn’t care any longer.
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