Maybe it’s a good thing you listened to that notorious Cee Lo Green song, because now you’re starting to think that the girl you love or fancy may just be using you for money. Now a common response from nice guys who hate thinking badly of not so nice girls is to say, “But I don’t have a lot of money!”
That’s not the point. In case you haven’t figured it out yet, millionaires are not that common. Rich men rarely show up at bars or social events, and so gold diggers have no choice but to come on to married men, middle class workers, and even the occasional poor man. Gold diggers don’t actually care about money—they just like the convenience money buys them. So sure, if you’re sending a message that says, “I’m dumb enough to buy you all kinds of things you don’t need without a commitment!” you’re going to have some women taking advantage of you. So take a step back, brother, and consider 10 signs or warnings that you may be dating a gold digger.
She prefers expensive things.
It doesn’t matter whether you’re talking movie shows, Christmas gifts or sticks of gum. She only wants the finest things and settling for second best just doesn’t seem rational to her.
Her friends are all gold diggers.
Right, so all of her friends are gold diggers. She admits it, they admit it…and yet you can’t admit the same thing about her? Birds of a feather…you know the rest.
She always asks questions…about your money.
Of course, she doesn’t care about money. However, she does insist upon knowing all of your financial business. How much you’re making, how much you have to spare and how much she can spend. Curiosity killed the cool cat!
She never pays for anything.
She doesn’t even ask. She expects you to pay for her, to take care of her.
She hates other women.
She doesn’t just avoid other women…she disparages them. She starts fights. She gives cold shoulders. And this is the behavior she has towards her own friends!
She uses her beauty for favors from other men.
Sure, it’s all for you…but the fact is she uses her looks to get favors from others. Do you really think she’s not using you in much the same way?
She only associates with high caliber people.
Even though she has no money of her own, she makes it a point to only associate with “winners”, namely guys who can do her favors.
She “upgrades” boyfriends every few years.
Boyfriends aren’t really anything special to a gold digger. They’re just stepping stones, almost as if she’s climbing her way to the very top. At least you can be happy you’re number 5 and not number 20.
She’s way out of your league.
Ordinarily, a girl dating you despite being way out of your league is a good thing. However, you’re starting to realize that what you have isn’t really a connection. You’re just blowing lots of money on a girl who still hasn’t given you any assurances.
She feels entitled to a life she doesn’t want to work for.
It’s all about entitlement. Don’t do everything for her. Teach her that nothing is worth having unless you earn it.
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