Signs of a Bad Relationship
It is a known fact that two people coming from two different backgrounds often require time to know each other and open up. Their liking, disliking, interests, mind set, attitude, mental and physical capability differ.
Patience and perseverance, communicative atmosphere, spending time together help them to come close gradually and create a bond. But one-sided effort does not make it happen. The other partner may be too casual in the relationship or ill-tempered and ill-mannered or taking undue advantage of the honest partner.
There can be many other factors that sign bad relationship. Do not accept and avoid an issue all the time as it may pose problem later.
Portray a different picture of partner – Do you need to hide your partner’s actions and behavior from your family and friends, try to cover him up in many instances? If so then you might be in a bad relationship and you partner is taking undue advantage of this behavior of yours.
Embarrasses and humiliates you in public – if he/she humiliates or embarrasses you in front of others, counts your shortcomings every now and then, then he/she definitely is not concerned about and gives a damn to your feelings. This is one signal that reflects that you are in a bad relationship.
Take you for granted – We often take each other for granted. This happens mostly in long partnerships. Every person has self esteem and individuality and his/her partner should respect that. If that respect is missing and it is taken over by neglect and carelessness then the relationship slowly decays.
Different goals in life – If our goal does not match with that of our partner, e.g. one is materialistic and ambitious while the other counts values and principles over such things and is content with little achievement then it becomes difficult for them to come to a point while taking a decision. This factor may eventually lead to bad relationship.
Love lost – A couple although staying together have little or no feelings for each other. It just becomes a routine matter to lead life together. This is a bad sign as at some point of time one partner might find the thrill and interest in someone else. This also leads to secrecy, infidelity and then loss of trust for each other thereby leading to a bad relationship.
Mistrust – Is your partner keeping a constant watch on you? While possessiveness is good and enjoyable, over possessiveness may become irritating and breathtaking at times. Keeping a note of your phone calls, your friends, your emails, even your office atmosphere continuously are all signs of mistrust and bad relationship. One must understand that to be in a relationship does not part a person from his/her social world.
Dominating - Is your partner always dominating you and not giving heed to what you have to say? Are all decisions taken by him/her single handedly without caring about what you think? If this is so then you are not in a healthy relation. Both the partners are equal and should share things in-between before deciding on something that affects both their lives.
Always feel unhappy and depressed – Anything you do does not make you happy and a negative and depressing atmosphere prevails. Whenever your partner is around you get alert and worry about the fact whether everything is up to the mark or to his/her liking. All these are signs of a bad relationship which you are somehow continuing.
Insulting and physically and mentally abusing – When insulting and abusing each other and physical violence becomes common between a couple then it is high time to think over about the relationship as these are signals of a bad and unhealthy relation and makes us think whether to continue it or not.
AAPOD : 01/04/2013
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