Have you ever been in a long distance relationship? If yes, then you must be aware of all those complications and never ending troubles attached to a long distance relationship. Well, there are plenty of couples who are currently staying away from their partners due to some professional as well personal reasons. But what happens to the relationship meanwhile?
Usually, people who are in this kind of relationship, face a lot of situations where they end up breaking up with their partners. There are many reasons due to which the couples misunderstand each other. Surprisingly, most of the times, things that does not matter much, become the bone of contention.
“ You don't have time for me”: We often get to hear these things from couples in long distance relationships. If a guy is living in another city due to his professional commitments, some or the other day his girl will surely say these words to him. As a matter of fact, you can blame either of them for this tricky situation. Because, a guy gives the reason of being pressurized with work targets, which is fair enough on his part.
What’s the take: Ideally, in this case a girl should try and understand that what all he is going through and support him through thick and thin. But if she is in doubt with his honesty, she can confront him whenever required.
“I think he’s double dating”: This is one question that comes in the mind of most of the girls when they are in love with guy who lives far apart from her due to professional reasons. This situation occurs when the communication gap increases and the couple have not met each other for a long while. Soon after, the girl starts making thought clouds that the guy is cheating on her.
What’s the take: In this kind of situation, there are 50% chances that one of the partner might be having another fling going on. But at the same time, a girl or a guy should not doubt without any evidence and facts. Thus, think properly before taking any action.
“We don't meet frequently”: This is one of the biggest challenge that a couple faces after a specific time span of being in a long distance relationship. It is a fact that probabilities of meeting each other regularly becomes less after a person moves to another city. Still, the guy should make sure the he meets his girl at least twice or if possible thrice a year. In case he is not able to maintain this ratio, then the relationship is surely in trouble.
What’s the take: It is understood a guy cannot manage to come over every weekend to meet his girl. But the at least he should create a huge gap so that she starts feeling miserable about her love life.
It is important for a couple to keep the relationship going if they are extremely serious for each other. So to avoid the misunderstanding further, here are some useful techniques to keep the warmth and affection intact in the relationship:
As for the guys, they should not create any communication gap in the relationship. Try and get in touch with her twice a day.
- Just in case you have been interested in other girls, just make the things clear to her. Truth is always better than denials.
- Try to meet her whenever you can. It makes her feel special.
- Surprise her with gifts at times. She will love you more.
- Always keep the trust factor alive.
In short, the couples who are actually in love will never let the misunderstandings come in between their relationship. No matter how far you live from each other, it is the purity of your bond that makes a couple stay connected with each other.
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