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Interesting Things to Talk About With Your Girlfriend

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The happiest relationships always involve lots of open and fun communication. Sometimes we can be at a loss for words around those we care about however. Here are some interesting things to talk about with your girlfriend to help get the conversations flowing.

 

Light Conversational Topics

It is smart to start off with light, fun questions that will get the ball rolling. If you don’t already know them, ask about favorites. Her favorite color, flower, food, city, memory, movie, book, candy, car, season, TV show, animal. You get the idea! Knowing a person’s favorites and even their dislikes is an easy way to get to know details about someone.

 

From there you can talk about your childhoods. Talk about where you were born; find out what her favorite childhood memories are. Talk about where you went to school, lessons that you learned that changed you, talk about summer vacations, and snow days and other good memories. People love to reminisce about their younger days.

 

Interesting Things to Talk About With Your Girlfriend

Ego Boosting

Who doesn’t love hearing more about themselves? An interesting topic of conversation with your girlfriend can include asking questions about what she thinks of you and vice versa. Ask about her first impression of you and when she first knew she liked you. Ask what she likes most about your personality and if you are brave and it won’t lead to a fight, ask what she would change about you. You can also ask what makes her happy about the relationship and what you could do to make it an even better one.

 

Serious Relationship Issues

If you are in a fairly serious relationship one thing you can talk about is the future, your future as a couple. Ask her where she sees herself in 5 years or 10. Does she plan to always live where you are now? What are her aspirations, her dreams in life? Women love a man who talks about the future as it means they are invested in the relationship, and hopefully envisioning a future together. Asking these types of questions can also help ensure you both are on the same page as far as what you want. If you envision settling down in your hometown with a mountain of children, and she sees no kids and globetrotting in her future, well it will certainly be an interesting conversation!

 

Dating and Sex

If you are in a comfortable relationship you may also wish to talk about love and sex. Don’t pressure her to talk about anything she isn’t ready for yet, but some things are good to know. Start off with fun questions such as how she likes to be kissed. You can ask if there are any places she would like to make love someday. Personal beliefs can be even trickier topics than sex, so be sure she enjoys the conversation before jumping in too deep. You can talk about religion, and her personal points of view on religious matters. Does she believe in an afterlife? Does she think there is life on other planets?

These are just a few topics to help get the ball rolling. Remember to stay curious about your girlfriend, and there will be no end to the interesting conversations ahead!  

 

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