How To Win A Guy Over
Every girl has faced that situation once in her life, when she has a crush on a guy and doesn't know what to do or how to about it, for there is that one boy who makes her heart skip a beat. The desire to be able to win the boy over is something that consumes you and nothing would make you happier than achieving it. So to help you in your quest we have some tips for you that will help you with the age old query of How to win a guy over. Just flip through our tips and go ahead bowl him over.
The first tip would be to win him over with your appearance, which translates to dressing well and in the most appropriate manner. They weren't entirely wrong in saying that first impression is the last impression. It really makes a lot of difference in the way your meeting with a guy progresses if you’re dressed to your absolute best.
If you’re still confused about what to wear then a useful tip that we can give you is to dress according to your personality. That will not only make you feel comfortable but also would be a reflection and representation of the real you. You do not have to pretend to be someone whom you are not for that will end up backfiring in the long run.
Setting the ideal venue:
Think of the most ideal place for your first meeting, think of a place which gives you ample amount of time to talk and get to know each other, but also sets up an ideal ambiance that you would want to share with someone whom you really like.
Now coming to the conversational essentials, you must keep in mind that you should talk about things that are neutral and positive. You could talk about movies you like, or the places that you want to travel to, things that you could build upon. Try to stay upbeat during the entire conversation it will not only make everything interesting, but will also be a good building block for him to like you even more.
Getting the conversation started:
You should make sure that you do not talk too much about yourself or about things that you do not like, you might come across as someone who likes to whine a lot and is prissy. Now these are the two tags that you definitely don’t want to get associated with you,
You need to try to be a good listener, but do not try to feign interest even. Everybody loves a good listener and if you have that quality within you then half your dilemma is served then and there. You should try to listen to what he is saying and try to build on forward in response to the point that he was making. Try to get creative with the questions you ask him. If you could come up with things that you feel no one else could have asked him then you get the extra points.
The smooth moves:
Flirt with him subtly, let him know that you are interested in him, but do not go over the top with the body language and gestures. It is absolutely imperative that you do not appear to be too pushy or over eager during your meeting. It will also be a good idea to try to normalize your body language and if you do want to make gestures make sure that they are subliminal to say the least.
Once you have perfected these tips, you are primed to go and sweep the guy of your dreams off his feet. The most important thing that you need to remember is confidence, if you’re sure of yourself there is nothing more irresistible than that.
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