Are you trying hard to find a date? For many men talking to a woman is one scary job but it is not as difficult a task as it might seem. Talking to a girl is really easy.
However, if you are not one of those alpha males for who talking to women is a cakewalk you can always do with some tips and suggestions. With a bit of confidence and lots of sense of humor you can find success in engaging a woman in an interesting conversation. We have therefore compiled a list of useful tips on how to talk to girls to help you in your bid.
Understand them: You’d need to understand women before you tread into their domain. Understanding the ‘fairer sex’ isn’t easy. Often they are more emotional and sensitive then men and hence, you’d need to adopt a different approach to deal with them.
Be confident: Your confident will help you win the battle easily. Women are quick to notice if you have a self assured manner with you. Most of the alpha males are self assured geniuses. Hence, take a positive approach towards the matter. Don’t take the affair of talking to a girl too seriously. Rather, a casual approach to the matter will improve your chance of success.
Decide what to say: If you are not sure where to begin the conversation you can take time in preparing a script. Doing a bit of homework on the person who you want to talk to will help you deal with the situation better. Gather knowledge on various subjects, like-arts, culture, music, fashion etc. so that you can engage her in an interesting chat. Girls like men who are knowledgeable.
Keep it lighthearted: It is not unusual to feel nervous while talking to a girl, especially during the first time, so it’d be wise to keep the conversation light hearted and hence, choose a comfortable topic for discussion. Maintain a relaxed mood. Remember that she could be nervous too and hence, this will make her feel confident while around you.
Be prepared: Groom yourself. Shower and shave and also brush your teeth to avoid bad breath. If she is coming over to your place, clean and arrange your house. Make proper arrangements for food and drinks if you have plans to throw a little party.
Wear right dress: Dress smartly. Clean and ironed clothes are mandatory for a date. The girl will think that you are not serious about the endeavor if you wear worn out, wrinkled clothes. Girls can’t resist men who know how to dress. Also don’t forget to put on some nice cologne before you take up the day’s task.
Sound convincing: Girls are not dumb. So, you must stop treating them that way. Rather, they have an acute instinct which helps them distinguish an honest effort from a phony one. Hence, you mustn’t try to pretend but act naturally. Don’t forget to smile but don’t overdo it either.
Be humorous: Girls like men who have a great sense of humor. So, don’t forget to crack jokes and make her laugh. However, you mustn’t go overboard with it. Check for the signs if she is receiving your jokes well.
Talking to girls will only need practices. You can master the art with repeated tries. So, don’t get disheartened if your initial attempts don’t go the right way. Rather, take a positive approach towards your failed efforts and try to learn from your mistakes.
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