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How to retain romance in your marriage

Posted on :2012-09-19 in

Who does not want to retain the romance and love of honeymoon? How many of you have actually achieved this? Most of you lose the flame, if not love, after a couple of years after your wedding.

 

You will say that you try but the responsibilities and work pressure do not let you do this. Isn’t it? The mantra is simple. Remember your old days when you were on your honeymoon.

 

What has changed? You… your love for your partner… or the way you think of him/her? Living your honeymoon days starts right when you take the first step. Read on…



Stop accusing each other: Blame game… this is the most lethal weapon, which can hurt your relationship. Stop accusing your partner. Try to put yourself on his/her place and judge. Compassion and love can rule out any trouble in a relationship. When your partner sees that you understand or are trying to understand him/her, he/she too restraints from blaming game.
 

How to retain romance in your marriage

Learn to forgive: Forgiveness is a virtue, which can save you from any mental dilemma. Just say within your mind “I forgive you”, you will feel a peace instantly. Next time, if your partner does anything, which arouses your anger, forgive him/her. Feel blessed within your soul. Your partner will also understand his/her fault.

Don’t let money come in your relationship: No matter how irritated you may feel over the spending habits of your partner, do not let any money discussion ruin your personal relationship. If you feel that your partner gets irritated whenever you talk finance, let it go. Set an example how to manage finances in front of your partner. This way, you can avoid arguments and discussions.

Go for weekly date: Who says that dating should be ended after you get married? Do not perceive your wedding as the end of your romance; rather consider it as the beginning of your love life. Arrange for weekly date in every weekend. Choose venues like your favorite restaurant, sea beach, the place where you first met with each other.

Plan out shared interests: Working couple never make out time to spend with each other. Ideally, you should be with your partner in order to be with him/her. You must adopt the personal likes and dislikes of your partner. Plan shared hobby outing like gaming, opera, or dancing.

Discuss the issues weekly: Schedule a particular date in a week, when you will discuss about your relationship issues. You can discuss on any topic, which you feel needs to be sorted out. The topic can range from behavior to finances. Allow your partner to discuss on your performance. Respect for each other is the key of success in any relationship.

If you love her, tell her: Many of you, especially men, go wrong with this. If you think about your partner all the time, go tell her. If you feel like telling her how much you love her, do not hesitate. Showing your love and affection will only make your partner feel better about you and your relationship.

Morning time is ideal time for a refreshing start: Start your day with little lovey-dovey attitude. Set the alarm five minutes before. This is the ideal time to wake up your partner with your love and care. You may be a little late for your office, but this little coziness can gift you a wonderful day ahead.

 

With these simple steps, you can really get help to bring back your honeymoon days in your same old marriage.


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