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How To Patch Up With Your Girlfriend

Posted on :2013-04-11 in
Are you frustrated and upset because your girlfriend recently broke up with you? Are you feeling completely shattered and lost because you have lost the one who loved you truly.

If you just can't take this pain anymore and wanna patch up with your girlfriend, the following steps will be of great help to you. Fixing a breakup is tough but not impossible. Adopt some of the ways and win your sweetheart back!

Give her time

A breakup is a painful phase for both the people who are there in a relationship with each other. So, if you think it's just you who's in this traumatic state, you are highly mistaken. Give your girlfriend some time to vent out her anger and frustration. Let her get back to her basics before you can approach her for a patch up.

Spot the issues

While you give your girlfriend some time to restore back to her normal self, you should work on finding the areas of problems in your relationship. Find what went wrong where. This will help you first get to the root cause of the breakup making it much clearer for you to work on the areas of high urgency.
 
How To Patch Up With Your Girlfriend

Let her speak

When you speak to her regarding a patch up, don't sound bossy or dominating at all. Don't impose your frustration onto her. Let her do the talking this time. Even if she gets angry while giving a way to her feelings, let her be. Once she is done speaking with whatever she had to, then you start talking about what all issues have you identified and how you plan to rectify them.

Apologize

Asking for a patch up is a critical issue and should be dealt with utmost care. Start by saying sorry. Apologize for whatever happened. Even if it was your lover's mistake, you say sorry. Love isn't about thinking who'll apologize first because if you really want the relationship more than anything else, you'll let go your ego to hell and do every possible thing to get your sweetheart back.

Don't Blame
If you really want to patch up with her, then you'll need to keep your cool while talking to her. Even if she blames for whatever happened that lead to this breakup, don't fight back. Don't blame her for any damn thing. If both of you start playing the blame game, things would surely worsen.

Promise her ; Assure her

Whatever happened, happened! If things are seeing a reversal, it probably is a time when you'll need to comfort your girlfriend's heart with a promise of such a thing never being repeated in the future. Take her hand in your hand and promise her that come what may, you'll never hurt her or leave her. Tell her how badly you want to be with her, every minute, every hour, everyday! Assure her that you'll always be with her, love her, fight for her, protect her and be a real man.

These small steps can work wonders for you. It's never too late to realize your mistake and make things alright. So, if you really love her and the thought of staying without her is ripping you apart, try these ways and win her trust and love back for you. If she loves you truly, she'll see the guilt and realization of mistake in your eyes. She'll read what your heart wants to say and definitely everything will be back to its colorful state. Go ahead and get her back. She's yours, only yours!

AAPOD : 02/04/2013
 

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