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How To Patch Up With Your Boyfriend

Posted on :2013-04-11 in

Have you broken up with him? Are you finding it difficult to stay without him? Well, don't torture yourself by putting yourself in an exaggerated phase of seclusion.

If it is devastating and you just can't take it anymore and are thinking about getting back to him, this guide will be of great help you. Read through the steps listed here that will help you patch up with your boyfriend quickly and restore the bond again!

Realization

Don't panic or get chaotic. Breakup is a phase that many couples go through while being in a love relationship. A realization of the fact that your boyfriend actually left you will help you regain your strength and think over what went wrong. You will first need to analyse what was the reason for such an occurrence.

Give him time

Guys generally need some alone time to cool down and restore their temper to a normal level. Instead of getting clingy by calling him again and again or by bombarding him with emotional text messages, it will be better if you give him some time to relax and calm down. If you keep calling him or crying over the phone calls, it would piss him off and push him away. Let him miss your presence for sometime. After a couple of hours or may be a day, try talking to him again.
 

How To Patch Up With Your Boyfriend

Speak to him

Another direct way could be to invite him to meet you or may be over a telephone call. Speak to him about whatever happened and apologize if it's your mistake. Tell him that you value his presence in your life and would wanna forget the past and start afresh. It's never too late)

Don't blame yourself

A break up isn't a one sided thing. There have to be mistakes or arguments from both ends that aggravate the situation to make it so tense that it ultimately leads to the decay of the relationship. Don't behave like a kid and start blaming yourself for whatever went wrong. Things definitely go the wrong way at times, but that certainly doesn't mean that it's only you who's responsible for it.

Work on Solutions

Talk to him about the issues that both of you have been experiencing and then work on finding solutions that aim at strengthening the bond.

Fights are natural

It's not something very unusual to have fights in a relationship. Loving things is easy because they don't have any feeling neither do they react to anything. But loving a person is difficult because he/she is very much like you and has the same set of emotions that you have. So, if you can feel good or bad about things even the other person can. There might arise differences at times which may lead to fights and finally a breakup. And these kind of phases are experienced by every couple at some point of their relationship for sure. Don't let a break up take over you and pull in a state of depression. This happens, happens with everyone. But it can definitely be reversed, from this dark and dull phase to the colorful and happy days.

Keep your ego aside

A lot of times, the main cause of a breakup is our own ego. So, if you have already landed up in such a state where your boyfriend has left you, you need to let go off your ego and with a very humble attitude, speak to him. Collect yourself, wear a smile and don't let your face express the pain in your heart. Speak to him about what all you intend to do to make things alright. Talk about having a bright future together.

These simple steps will help you first regain your strength and make your strong enough to speak to your man like any wise lady would do with her dream man. He's your man! Go get him back! You can do it.

 

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