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7 best ways to Motivate your Partner

Posted on :2013-02-03 in

Motivating your partner is very vital for the relationship. But before you motive your partner you have to know what exactly motivation is? The inner force which helps you to achieve your goal in life and pushes you towards success is motivation. Every day cannot be the best day of your life.

 

There will be days when success will not be at your partner’s side. It is on such days you will have to be motivating your partner for the best.



Motivation can be positive and negative too. While you motivate your partner to move forward in life and face reality how it comes, you have to be very optimistic. Optimism is a part of positive motivation. Remember that this will also strengthen the relationship between you and your love. If in case the motivation is negative, it will affect your other relations, social circle and career.

 

7 best ways to Motivate your Partner

There will be days when your partner will not be in the right mood. We call them to be low days. Then it becomes your responsibility to motivate your partner. Seven simple ways are mentioned below to motivate your love in the right direction:

  1. Speak softly.
  2. Boost the confidence level.
  3. Be optimistic.
  4. Appreciate all attempts
  5. Give complete freedom
  6. Contribute your ideas
  7. Listen patiently

You will have to be extremely soft in speaking while you try to motivate your partner. Please note that while you try different things to boost his/her confidence you have to be very careful. Your partner in human and not God. Humans do not like to be guided always. So while you guide your partner to be optimistic do not be the teacher. Be a sensible companion. Talk about all positive things. Appreciate all attempts. Speak about the good things first and then the negatives.
 

How to give a negative feedback

Feedback is very important. Any action of your partner will demand your feedback. Even if you have to give a negative feedback, you have to be extra careful. Start with the positive first. Give the positive feedback followed by the negative feedback.
 

Understand the problem

While you motivate your partner you have to understand the problem. When your partner needs motivation then he/she is in an unidentified problem. It becomes your responsibility to identify the problem first and then kill it at the root.
 

To err is human

Accept your partner’s fault. Remember making mistake is a part of being human. Give your partner enough freedom to make the mistake. Provide enough inspiration that the mistake is not repeated. Repeating mistake is not a good sign. So, talk to your partner regularly. Be in touch always.
 

The feeling of accomplishment

If you have a target and you reach it on time, you will feel like a winner. Same is the feeling once you have motivated your partner. You will feel more successful than your partner. To have a healthy relation, it is very important that both of you stay motivated and inspired. This will lead to fairy tale ending which says: And they lived happily ever after.
 

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