How to Make Up with Your Partner After a Fight
A relationship goes through various phases of happiness and sorrow. You have many good times to cherish but you'll have a few fights and arguments as well.
Fights are normal when you are in a relationship because you are in a relationship with a human being who's like you only. Loving things is damn easy because non-living things can't express but loving a human being, is damn tough as they can express what's in their heart and mind.
Every individual is different which is bound to give rise to many compatibility issues in the relationship. But true love is all about fighting through these tense situations of heated up arguments, valuing your partner more than your ego and doing every damn thing to make everything alright because the very thought of loosing your partner makes you heart sink! If you have had a big fight with your lover and are now guilty and want to make up with him/her, the following tips will be of great help to you.
#1 : Let go your Ego!
The prime cause of most of the break ups is “Ego”. If you have had a terrible fight with your partner but have the intent to sort things out and patch up at the earliest, you'll first need to kick out this evil from your inner self. Let go your ego because only after that you'll be able to develop that much needed humble attitude to ask for forgiveness from your partner.
#2 : Say Sorry!
If you really want the relationship as badly as your lover wants it, saying sorry will not be too hard for you. Walk up to your partner and owe up your mistake, even if it wasn't you who started it all, still apologize. In love, who says sorry first shouldn't be the deciding factor of who is more loving or who is more serious about this bond. What is important is the apology, irrespective of who takes the initiative for fixing up the issue. Hold you lover's hand, look into his/her eyes and apologize. This will make him/her realize their mistake too and you will recieve an instant apology from their end as well.
#3 : Communication is the key!
For a relationship to be successful, open communication is a must. Take time to figure out the true cause of this fight. You may find some underlying causes beneath the superficial ones which were the actual reasons for your ire. Once you find the true cause of these arguments, you should discuss them openly with your partner. If you let your ego take over you and start brooding the issue, you'll never be able to fix it. Talk it over and work on solutions that will help to avoid the occurence of fights over the same issue in the future. No doubt new issues will always crop up on new reasons but that's how you get to know each other, the likes and dislikes, the way your partner would act or react to things which ultimately would nurture the relationship and make the understanding between the two of you much stronger.
#4 : Shower your love, care and affection!
Once you are through with the above steps, them comes the time for making your lover feel loved and cared for. You both have just rescued the relationship from the treamors of a dangerous fight that could possibly wreck it, so it's definitely the time to make your special one feel more special. Start by giving a warm and tight hug, it will convey what your heart wants to say. Next, if it's okay to get a little intimate, whisper the golden words in his/her ear followed by a sorry and before he/she can react to this apology, try the magical liplock, a kiss to wash away the bruises of the arguments and start afresh.
#5 : Assurance!
This is a very important stage! Your lover is hurt because of whatever you said or did. Although you have taken the above steps and tried to get everything back to its normal pace, concluding it with an assurance would make your love believe that you value this relationship more than these stupid fights that happen due to the silly and petty reasons. Just make a promise that you shall try never to repeat this in future, try to understand him/her in the entirety, love him/her with all your might and try your level best to avoid any fights. Show your lover that it's only him/her that you want for your life, nothing else.
#6 : Surprize!
Fill your lover's day with small surprises that will make him/her forget about this painful experience. How about a romantic morning breakfast or if that's too much, try your hand with a cup of his/her morning tea/coffee. Leave a sorry note on his/her bedside table. Send a sorry card along with some fresh flowers or a box of chocolates to let the sadness evade and happiness barge in.
These were 6 simple ways to make up with your partner after a huge fight. Always remember, you should value the one who loves you truly because it is very difficult to find true love. So, if you have been blessed with one, appreciate it. Don't let these fights that take place due to the most unobvious reasons to break this bond of yours with your special someone.
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