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Why is it so hard to find a real friend?

Posted on :2012-07-30 in

So, you like going out with your friends, you love spending time with them, you like to grab a drink or two with them, catch up for dinner, like to go out on vacations with them…so they are your best friends right?

 

Whoa, c’mon!!! Real friends are just not that easy to find! The worst thing you can do is mistaking your acquaintances as your friends. Let’s try this out…the person concerned, do you feel at ease with him/her? Can you share all your secrets with him/her? Do you miss him/her at time of joy and sorrow?

 

Do you keep worrying about him/her…his/her health or problems? If ‘yes’ is the answer for all these questions, then well, congratulations, you’re one lucky person who has a true friend beside him/her.


Why is it so hard to find a real friend?


No one can teach you how to make real friends. There are no guidelines, no formula to have a friend for life. However, there are some suggestions which can help you to recognize the real ones. When it comes to friends, the real ones are hard to find. The present time of neck to neck competition, professional challenges and mindless ambitions have made people around us selfish and self centered. We like it or not, we too are a part of this mad house striving to be the best. It becomes very tough to show your real self at times like this. And, as a result, until and unless you show your real self, you cannot make friends.

Real friendship can be achieved only if you let the person come close to you and understand you. As a matter of fact, you also have to make sure that the person truly believes in you and depends on you with his/her deepest secrets. There has to be trust, understanding, love and care for the person you call a friend. You have to be thoughtful of all his/her concerns. A shoulder to cry, hearts to feel each others emotions, laughter, tears, fights, makeups, togetherness, and perfect understanding of each others likes and dislikes…what else can be friendship all about!

People say real friends cannot be found, you just come across them. It takes more of destiny than efforts to find a real good friend. Many of us are lucky to have these people in our life called friends and some of us are still waiting for them to come. Real friendships cannot be made…it just happens when the right cords strike and hearts unite. It is just that your life becomes more fun and worth living when you have a true friend to stand by you, always!


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