Being in love with someone is a feeling that's indescribable. Everything seems to be at the peak of its beauty when you are in love with your special someone. Life turns into a bed of roses where all your dreams seem to turn into reality.
But then comes the time for climax. Every relationship may not have a happy ending. A heartache is painful and it can have dangerous effects on the individual who's going through it. If your boyfriend betrayed you or dumped you for reasons that weren't significant enough, instead of stressing yourself you should collect your broken self back to teach him a good lesson.
A lesson so tough that makes him feel sorry for his deeds. Here are a few tips that will teach you those ways by which you can make your man feel guilty for what he did to you.
#1. Total Boycott
Accept the fact that it's over. This realization is important as it will help you gather the courage to make him feel sorry. Stop talking to your ex in the entirety. End all communication with him, be it via phone calls or text messages, just put an end to it. Cut out all means by which he can approach you. If he still makes an attempt to talk to you, just don't listen to his shit and walk away.
#2. Keep Distance
Out of sight, out of mind will work wonders in your case. Just try and avoid going to places where he comes. If he tries to come up to you, just walk away. Don't go near him at all. This will project you as a strong person who's capable of handling whatever happened and still move on.
#3. Self Assurance
He cheated on you and finally lost you. Don't feel bad or sorry for yourself. Remind yourself that it's not you who's lost, it's he, who lost someone who loved him so deeply with utmost purity. Take this as a clear indication from God that this guy just didn't deserve you. You deserve someone much better. Relax and wait for your dream man to come into your life.
#4. Get a little flirty
This is an amazing tactic to make your ex jealous. When he's around you, get a little flirtatious with the other men. Laugh at their jokes, get flattered by their compliments, go out with them to parties. This will spark the flame of regret in your ex-boyfriend. But, don't do excess of flirting as it may give out wrong signals to other men. Maintain your decency and use this as a weapon against your ex. Stay safe.
#5. Do away with all memoirs
Keep in mind that you want to teach you ex a lesson and not that you are doing all this to get him back into your life and regain the same relationship status. Flush out the frustration by destroying any and every memoir of your ex. Wanna feel even better? Burn all of them or flush them in your toilet commode.
#6. Look absolutely amazing
Dress up nicely and look good. This will hint your ex that you have not been affected by the breakup at all. Also, he'll regret having lost someone who's so charming and sought after.
#7. Block him on all internet channels
Kick him out from all your internet channels. Block him on Facebook, Twitter and all other social networks. Categorize his emails as spam so that they don't reach you. Let him know that he's been totally axed from your life.
#8. Exhibit happiness
If you are with your friends and you notice your ex approaching or passing by, start laughing loudly at jokes, showcase your happiness. This will make him jealous within seconds. Seeing you happy without him will make him understand that you've moved on and this heartache wasn't strong enough to break you.
I understand that some things are easier said than done, but if you really want to get over this emotional turmoil and teach that cheat a lesson, you'll need to adopt these steps. Have faith in God and move on to receive what's there for you in store from His end. The best way to defeat your enemy is to smile and make him feel that you care a shit about him. So, just do it lady. Smile and be happy, always.
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