How To Know If You Are Not In Love Any More
If falling in love is considered to be the best of the emotions, then falling out of love also can be considered a stronger one. Love is all about feelings between hearts and at times, one of them doesn’t feel alike for the other.
It is at this point, the emotion dies and the relationship becomes a burden. The signs of this death of feelings may not be clear in the beginning but as time goes by, they become the cause of pain and frustrations.
If you are feeling alike, find out what are the possible signs of not being in love anymore:
You don’t miss or remember the person any more: Earlier, you could not even spend a minute without thinking of your partner. But now if your mind doesn’t remain engrossed with his/her feelings and you don’t miss him/her, then these clearly indicate that you are in no need of the person anymore in life.
You don’t like to spend time together any more: Earlier you could not let him/her be away from yourself but recently you don’t feel like being together. You find the togetherness dull and boring and spend the weekend without even a single date. You find the time spent with your partner as wastage of time and this proves you have lost the charm.
You get irritated by his/her presence: Whatever he/she does, you get irritated. Even if your partner continues to do whatever he/she used to do earlier, you hate that and don’t like those gestures at all. Sometimes, when love totally fades away, the very sight of your partner may get on your nerves.
You search for someone else: Even if your partner happens to be the most beautiful person on earth, if love doesn’t exist in between you two, you will find him/her as ordinary as others. You constantly search for someone else and extramarital/or cheating over may sound interesting for you. When you start feeling that you need someone better, then for sure, love has come to its end point.
You lack the excitement in between: Earlier, the very presence of your partner was enough to light your eyes up or excite your feelings, but if that’s not the case anymore, you need to think over. If conversations or interactions between you lack the magic, you better move on as that’s the sign of a dead love.
You lack the respect towards your partner: With love comes respect, in fact in any relationship, respect is the basis. You yell at him/her, utter demeaning words and go to the extent of scorning for small mistakes, especially in front of others. You definitely cannot be in love with a person whom you think is a loser or not worth of being with you.
You argue and fight a lot: Every couple, whether in love or not, fight in between, but soon they also patch up and move towards a happy ending. In your case if every normal communication turns into a heated argument, it is time to rethink whether you really want to be together or not.
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