Meeting the right girl is a major quest for single guys – they can't help it, no matter how hard they try.
If you feel like you've been flirting with someone but aren't sure, you'll probably end up thinking “If only there was a list of ten ways to know if she likes me!” Though every gal is different, you can bet she will do at least half of these if she is into you.
The more you can check off, the better chance you have at landing that first date you both are hoping for.
She's Always Wearing a Dumb Grin
Regardless of where in the world you go, there is nothing more universal than the sheepish smile of a person who is smitten. As the two of you spend time around each other – at the water cooler, after a class, etc. – she won't be able to hide her pleasure at stealing a few minutes with you. That ridiculous grin will be your first hint at the larger possibilities taking root in her heart.
Instead of Talking, She Listens a Lot
There can be little doubt that women have the gift of gab. Watch her spew out thousands of words per minute with one of her girlfriends. Does she do the same thing when you are paired up? Is she more likely to ask you a question and hang on every word? Both are good signs (the first entails she wants to include you in her life) but the latter is big hint she has more in mind than just letting you talk about what's going on every day – she wants to be a part of it.
She Laughs at All Your Jokes
Even the most successful comedians tell jokes that bomb from time to time – no one is perfect when it comes to being funny. If she's making you feel like you are, chances are it's because she likes you. For guys, the impression you have a great sense of humor is a big confidence boost. She knows that and, by finding you “hilarious” more often than she should, she is indicating her desire to connect with you in any way possible.
You Find Her Beside You Frequently
In real estate, conventional wisdom states the three most important things are “Location, location and location.” It's no different when it comes to people who like each other. In a crowd, the pair with a mutual attraction are more likely to be jockeying to get close. Any opportunity to get next to you is like gold for her, so she will attempt to sit in the nearest desk or visit your cubicle often.
She Makes Constant Eye Contact
You know the feeling of someone looking at you from across a room? If she likes you, it's fairly likely you will end up with that feeling pretty regularly. You might not like being compared to an object, but humans naturally look on the things they desire with regularity. It doesn't matter if it's a new pair of shoes, a dress in her favorite color or just the guy she hopes will ask her out, she is going to keep looking until she gets what she is wishing for.
Her Hands Are All Over You
Let's clear something up before we go too much further: she will not be touching you like that. What she will do, however, is find subtle ways to break into your personal bubble and steal some physical contact. She might, say, throw an arm around your shoulder to congratulate you on completing a project or rest her hand on your shoulder while taking your lunch order. She absolutely can't resist the temptation to do so, even if it seems pretty low-level to you.
She Brags About Her Abilities
Men and women both like to puff themselves up, especially on job interviews or when attempting to catch someone's eye. When she talks about how great she is in the kitchen, it's because she wants to cook for you. Has she been telling you all the details of her latest speedy run? She's hoping you'll get out on the trail with her. It's another way for her to demonstrate her qualities as a potential mate, a sure sign she's after your heart.
You Get a Present or Two Regularly
Speaking of her baking skills, have you received a pan of brownies or bag of cookies? Something else? Though you might be thinking she'll bring you a new book or a video game you're craving, the little heartfelt gestures are the first steps to the big-ticket items. She might drop off a fresh pack of pens if she hears you complaining about losing yours again, too, as a way to demonstrate how much she cares about your needs.
She Dresses to Impress
For guys, this often means they put on nicer shirts (and sometimes neckties) to show girls how sharp they can look. In the case of a girl that likes you, it's almost always that and the exact opposite. She might show up to watch the game with you in a T-shirt sporting your team's favorite logo or put on a sweatshirt and jeans to come closer to your personal style. It's her subconscious way of saying, “Look at how much alike we are!” in order to get you to ask her out.
Her Schedule Increasingly Matches Yours
Ever noticed how, when you can't stop thinking about someone, they always seem to appear? Is it just that you are lucky or because you are looking for them without knowing it? When you notice her showing up in the spots you love to hang out, it is probably because she's subconsciously looking to spend time with you in any way possible. Even waving at you from the other side of the library is a thrill for her, she likes you so much.
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