It is said that we realize the worth of things, only after we lose it. This is very true and one instance of this is, when you start feeling that perhaps, your ex-boyfriend is the man of your dreams after all.
So, if you are thinking about how to get your ex-boyfriend back you can do it, provided you are clear about what you want and are determined to get it. It might happen that after you break up with your boyfriend, you will slowly begin to realize his importance and worth and there is nothing wrong in this.
Once you realize this, you must think about getting back with him. Of course there are some things, which you will have to consider for this.
Honest and Upfront
Being honest about the whole thing is very important. While renewing your relationship, do not discuss with him everything both of you have been through. Be very honest while saying all this, as this can lay the foundation of a new relationship between both of you. No matter what you feel, express them.
Know his feelings
If you have mutual friends try to find out his feelings about you. Ask them if he ever mentioned your name and if yes, in what context. This will help you in finding out ways on how to win your ex-boyfriend back. You can come to know if he is still interested in you or not.
Slow and steady is the way to go
Take things slowly, preferably one step at a time. When you set to win over your ex-boyfriend, start by becoming his friend. Spend time with him as a friend and try to analyze what went wrong with the earlier relationship. Once you come to know about the mistakes, avoid repeating them in this new phase.
Change yourself, whether it is in terms of habits, behavior or your looks. If there is something in particular that used to annoy him, you might as well get rid of it. Once he sees the effort you have made to change yourself, he is sure to warm up to the ‘new' you.
Go out with him
Ask him if he would like to go out with you sometimes. Take him to places where both of you had gone as a couple, and enjoyed some memorable moments. Talk about the things you did back then and how much fun you had. This will surely get him thinking about renewing your relationship.
Talk to him about everything, why the relationship did not work out in the first place, and why you would like to get back with him again. Talk to him about the things you like about him, about how you feel when you are with him and how you are going to ensure that this time things will be different in the relationship.
If you find out that he has a new girlfriend, do not barge in and infringe the relationship. Instead, try and analyze if you would really like to win him back or he is better off with his new girlfriend. Choose whatever is best for both of you!
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