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How to Get your Boyfriend to Propose You

Posted on :2012-08-18 in

Girls love the idea of being proposed by the man of her interest and they normally get into a relationship with the idea to marry and start a family eventually.

 

Guys on the other hand, aren’t often half as serious about marriage as women are. Hence, the confusion arises when you don’t get your boyfriend propose you.

 

It is quite natural to feel insecure and disappointed if you can’t get your boyfriend propose you. But it is not the time to lose hope and do nothing.

 

Rather, you must devise an action plan on how to get your boyfriend to propose you. Check out the tips below on how to get your boyfriend to propose you.
 

How to Get your Boyfriend to Propose You

Take the indirect approach: He may not be ready yet for a marriage and hence a direct talk will make him more uncomfortable. Hence, if you want him to propose, don’t approach to the topic of marriage directly. Rather, an indirect approach is deemed as a more appropriate in dealing with the matter.



You may mention the matter casually during conversation, like talk about a friend who has gone to a honeymoon recently and observe his reactions.



Attend some marriage functions together: If one of your friends is getting married then you can ask your boyfriend to come along with you to the function. But you may also avoid commenting upon how beautiful the idea of marriage is. If he is not yet ready it will only push him away further. If he is interested in proposing you he will take the hint.



Make him feel confident: Throw him the signs that you are interested in making more serious commitments. You’ll need to give him the confidence to help him make the final proposal.


Discuss his fears: Is he reluctant to make a commitment because of some past incidents? If you feel that there is something bothering him, which is also stopping him from making commitment then you may discuss his fears and try to sort things out.


Take help of a friend: You can request a common friend to put the question before him. If someone of your friends have got engaged recently you can also ask him/her to bring the topic up in a discussion.


Don’t glorify the idea of marriage: Men don’t want to get married as desperately as women do and therefore they tend to avoid the glorified idea of marriage.


Don’t threat: Don’t threat him to marry you. Threats like ‘if you don’t marry me soon I’ll leave you’ often don’t work. Its better not to use such threats since it may prompt him to reconsider the idea of maintaining the relation with you.


Get his views: Casually bring the topic into discussion and try to get his general view on the topic. This will help you understand if he is at all serious about the relationship or not.


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