How to Get Back your Ex-Girlfriend if She's Still Single
Ready to be a trickster and a little manipulative? Well, that coupled with honest intentions will definitely win you back your ex-girlfriend. That she is still single makes your job easier. Remember, patience, time and sympathy play great roles.
Apologize – A sincere sorry can go a long way in breaking the ice and melting the heart. But then the apology should be heartfelt. Anything insincere will send out a wrong message. It will be not too long before she sees through any flippancy.
Be honest – As the saying goes, honesty is (almost always) the best policy. Discuss why you accepted the break-up and why you are considering a patch up. It might be a little difficult if it were you who initiated the break-up. But you can always explain that to err is human.
Give her time & space – Don’t rush her. It may confuse her. She might still be hurt and grieving about the break-up. She might need some space to clarify her thoughts. The last thing you would want is a half-hearted confused response from her. Relationships are important aspects in a person’s life. It’s best entered with conviction.
Remind her of the good times – This is kind of a psychological treatment. Highly required to cover up for all the bad phases that you’ve had just prior to and during the break-up. Harping on the good times you have shared may help her understand if the two of you are meant to be together.
Try joining an activity class together – Have a passion you share? Or a hobby you both want to inculcate? It’s a good time to enroll in such an activity together. This will allow you to spend some productive time with each other. The fun, laughter and togetherness may help to fade out the bitter phase of the break-up.
Proper timing and patience – After a break-up a person goes through turmoil and a whirlwind of various emotions. You have to wait for her to calm own a little before you persuade her. Rushing things will not help in any way. In fact, it might end up causing a chaos.
Listen to and respect her view points – Don’t be selfish. Listen to her. A relationship is a mutual commitment. It is important that you understand and respect her side of the story too. This is the best time to discuss the different problem you two had faced and how you resolve to keep those at bay in the future.
Don’t force her into any permanent commitment – Tempted to propose marriage just to make her understand how sincere you are about getting her back to your life? Wait. Take small steps at a time. It is better to resolve any differences that caused the break-up and consider whether both of you are ready for a long time (if not permanent) commitment before you decide to take your relationship to the next level.
Sometimes we value what we have once we lose that. Perhaps that was the case with you. But remember life does not give you too many chances. If you are patching up with your ex-girlfriend, give it a deep thought, so that you never flicker again.
- Valentine's Day (44)
- Boyfriend (46)
- Gift Ideas(12)
- Kissing (20)
- Romantic Ideas(29)
- Dating (62)
- Relationship (204)
- I Miss You (2)
- Sorry (2)
- Friendship (39)
- Flirting (67)
- Cheating (16)
- Marriage (28)
- Divorce (5)
- Honeymoon (1)