There is no way you’re going to be alone on Valentine’s Day—all the more so if your ex is dating someone else! Now is not the time to get shown up. The fact is; it’s not that hard to find a boyfriend. Well, it’s actually ridiculously easy to get a boyfriend if you attend a Star Trek convention and take interest in learning Klingon.
Rest assured though, we mean you can pick up a really cute and confident guy without Vulcan ears, if you just follow our tips on how to get a boyfriend fast!
Go Out and Mingle
This is the most important rule, as the only way to guarantee that you will be lonely on Valentine’s Day is to not go anywhere. The hermit lifestyle is not conducive to finding a new flame. Force yourself to go out places and meet new people, even if they aren’t serious romantic interests. If you have trouble getting out to bars or social events, you can always “mingle” online at a top dating site like eHarmony, Chemistry.com or even AdultFriendFinder, if you want that kind of boyfriend.
Dress Like a Siren
Let’s get down to it. Men are visual creatures. If you showcase your hot bod with a low cut top, short skirt, or even tight clothing you’re going to get attention, offers and glances from every direction. Don’t just dress up—doll yourself up in makeup and style your hair. Choose a fashion style that speaks to you and that reflects your man hunting mood.
Be Nice and Listen
Of course, just being there and having cleavage is enough to get a one night stand. However, if serious boyfriend material is what you are looking for then the best approach is the laid back, friendly and listening approach. Don’t flirt all night or play head games. Take the time to listen to a nice guy you meet. Let him talk about himself a bit and ask questions to show you’re listening.
Usually it is men that are told to be confident, but the fact is, if you’re a woman looking for a boyfriend confidence DOES matter. You don’t want to come across as needy or desperate or else the smart and attractive guys may resist you. You have to carry the attitude that says “I don’t need this…but I’m having fun here.”
Qualify Your Guys by Being Yourself
Qualifying your choice in men is a smart idea, as this will get rid of the guys who aren’t serious boyfriend material. Be yourself and don’t be shy about showcasing the best aspects of your life and your personality. Don’t whine or complain, don’t gossip, and don’t be a man hater. However, you should not lie about who you are, not pretend to have an attitude that’s not really you. Ultimately, you want a boyfriend who appreciates everything about you!
This may be bending the “rules” a bit when it comes to being a desirable female on the dating scene, but the fact is that if you want a boyfriend fast (like say, within a week) you have to be available. Even if your instincts say you shouldn’t answer the phone. Be available right now to a man who is looking right now.
Follow these instructions and you will have a love-smitten boy toy in no time!
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