At times in life we come across situations when we start losing interest in love and romance. We start feeling that the chemistry which once had bounded us together with our partners is fading.
In such scenarios you’d need to make efforts which will help you rekindle the chemistry between you.
However, the task of rejuvenating the relation isn’t as easy as it sounds and hence we are sure that you can do with some DIY (do it yourself) tips which will help you in getting close to your partner again if you are already in a relation or will help you in finding new romance in life.
If you are finding it hard in forging an intimate relationship with your partner here are some tips to help you in your bid.
Get back confidence: As the first step to rebuild an intimate relation with your partner you’d need to get your confidence back. For that you’d have to look and feel good. Get a makeover and change your hairstyle. Once you change yourself your partner will soon start noticing the changes in you.
Get professional help: Sometimes it may help to get professional help. There are marriage counselors who can help in rejuvenating the relation between you and your partner. Counseling can often help you in identifying the problems in your relationship. They can also help you devise a policy through which you can get intimate with your partner again.
Change attitude: Love is often a mind game and hence you’ll need to change your attitude before you take steps in forging an intimate relationship again. First, you’d need to change your mindset that you are growing old and hence can’t get into an intimate relationship. Changing of attitude also means that you have to make changes in your habits as well.
Stay active: If you have given up your interests long ago it is time to resume those once more. Take up new hobbies or resume one which you used to pursue as young. Join health clubs or Tai-chi classes and stay active. You can also ask your partner to join these as well. This will give you chances to spend more time together.
Encourage comments: When you make the positive changes you are also likely to glow. People will be quick to notice the positive energy which will radiate through you when you are a positive person. So you may keep yourself open for appreciating comments.
Once you take steps towards improving your life people will appreciate your effort and you’ll see changes in their attitudes towards you as well.
Improve your looks: Start taking small steps towards improving your appearance. If you are overweight you may join a weight lose program which will help you in shading those extra pounds. Even small improvements will help you achieve greater changes.
If you are already in a relationship you will be quick to see the changes in your partner’s attitude towards you.
Understand your changed taste: As we grow old we tend to get attracted by the finer qualities of a person. Finding the cutest guy and the hottest girl no longer remains our priorities. We learn to appreciate the more intrinsic qualities of a human being. So, fine tune your taste. This will help you find a better match for yourself.
Create an ambiance: Do you think that you need the extra push to get intimate in your relation? At times we can do with an elaborate preparation to get into the right mood. If you have special plans for the evening, take time in redecorating the setting. Painting the bedroom walls with bright and vibrant colors will help putting an extra spark into your relation.
Take your time: Don’t accept a relation only out of the fear of getting old. If you are sure about what you want take time in searching for the right option. Meet and talk with more people. Maintain an approachable attitude. Having a little fun can’t hurt anybody so you may consider a relationship which will not want you to get too intimate for the time being.
Enjoy life to the fullest as it is the most beautiful gift that has been given to us by God. There is no age limit to find love and it may cross your way even at the most unexpected moment. Keep yourself open to accept it when it comes.
AAPOD : 08/04/2013
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