The kick of excitement, the craving for tasting hedonistic pleasures on offer or sometimes too much of alcohol is enough to make you go in for a one-night stand.
It might be all fun to spend a night humping someone but when you have to get back to the normal grind of the daily life then you need to find ways to deal with the aftereffects of one-night stand. It can be quite difficult to live with the horrors that one-night stands often throws up before us.
The magic of this kind of pleasure lasts only for a single night but shuts off as soon as it is done. Here are some of the most effective tips that will help you deal with one-night stand and help you keep it smooth and problem-free.
Do not stay put in other person’s bed
When you get a bad hangover and you indulge in one-night stand then it is hard to get up from bed. However, make an effort to get to home faster as soon as you wake up from the last night’s adventure-seeking experience. No matter how sleepy you feel, it is best to stay put up in your own bed rather than lingering in someone else’s bed. You might invite undue attention from the neighbors or friends of the person with whom you had a one-night stand. It is best not to stick around for too long. Make a fast exit as soon as u realize that the magic of the random encounter is over.
Avoid calling/texting when in bed
Even though you have a habit of calling people when you wake up in the morning, it is best not to do so when you end up waking in the bed of a random person. Contacting others when in the bed of someone else after a one-night stand can be seen as a bad gesture. You can make a fast getaway from the house and then contact other people.
Ascertain how you will take the relation forward
For a lot of people, one-night stand is just a night of sheer pleasure, fun, adventurous sex and so. There is nothing much to really sustain in a random night spent with a random person. If you belong to the category of people who really think that one-night stands should better be left as that only then it is best for you to show no interest in taking it forward. Make it very clear to the other person that it was just for a night and they should not try to take it to another level. However, if you really developed a liking in that one-night stand then you can exchange numbers and take it to some other level.
Manage expectations well
The most important thing is to manage expectations after random hook-ups. Keep your expectations low from the person with whom you have had pleasure for a night. Try not to draw in emotional strings into the one-night pleasurable experience that you had as it might complicate matters further.
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