A relationship where one has to lie to the other can never last successfully in the long run. Trust gets breached when a person starts lying.
If you are going around with boyfriend, whom you think lies to you about a number of things then it will be really difficult for you to believe him next time. Once you become sure that your man is lying to you, it will take you a lot of time to trusting him back again.
In case, you do not want to lose this relationship, you will have to learn a few effective tips to deal with a lying boyfriend.
Avoid digging deep into the lie
There is nothing positive to be achieved if you wish to catch your lying boyfriend red-handed, committing the act of lying in front of you or others. If your boyfriend has the habit of lying to you perpetually then he will also be smart enough to lie to you when you confront him with proofs of deception. He will come up with other sorts of lies to conceal his other set of lies. Also, you would like to become a lie detector and waste your time digging into his lies. Therefore, it is best not to take on an investigative role as it might hamper the relationship forever.
Do not be accusatory
When you already know that you are in a relationship with a lying boyfriend then it will be futile to play the role of a nagging and accusatory girlfriend all the times. In fact, placing blames on him for lying to you might make him look for someone else. It might work against your relationship. You need to confront him but not in an accusatory mode. Be polite when you approach him and handle the situation smartly to show that you are aware that you are being fooled to believe his lies when you speak to your boyfriend. Accusation will not bring about any positive change in the relationship but might damage it further.
Tell him about your expectations
If you are sure that you lover provides you with made-up stories and lies all the time then it is best to communicate to him about your displeasure of being fooled with lies in a relationship. State your expectations and tell him frankly that you want him to be an honest boyfriend. Be a little firm when you talk of your expectations as he might not take you very seriously if you do not put it sternly and assertively about trust that you look for in a relationship with him.
Move on if the behavior does not change
Even after telling a person to change his habit of lying to you, he does not pay heed to u then it is best to move on. Remember that it is not easy to change the habit of lying of a perpetual liar. You may have tried a number of times but when a person does not change his ways then it is best to leave him up to his habit and look for someone on whom you can place your trust.
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