For most of us kissing is the first step towards building an intimate relation and hence it plays an important role in strengthening the bond between you and your partner. But what would you do if your partner is a bad kisser?
It can be a difficult situation to deal with. But with little patience, encouragement and practice most of the bad kissers can become pros in the art of kissing. If you have a bad kisser for a partner here are few useful tips on how to deal with a bad kisser.
Don’t make a hasty decision: When you kiss someone for the first time only to discover that he/she is a bad kisser the impulse is to end the relationship and move away. But it can be a bad idea since kissing isn’t the sole determinant of a relationship. If you find that person attractive, exciting, motivating and funny then you must deal with him/her with patience than ending the relation over a kiss.
Determine the reason: What has made him/her a bad kisser? You may take time in analyzing the reason behind his/her bad performance with kissing. It may be only that his/her needs differ from yours when it comes to kissing. If possible you can also bring up the topic indirectly to get his/her idea about it.
Analyze yourself: Before you tag your partner as a bad kisser you may take time in analyzing your performance. The problem can also lie within you. If your passion doesn’t match with that of your partner’s then you may feel they are being over aggressive. Successful kissing demands active participation of both the parties. Hence, the kissing session can turn out to be a disaster if you are too passive. You may ask your partner how he/she finds you as a kisser.
Convey the message: You may convey the message to your partner that you are not satisfied with their kissing expertise. They may not have a chance to know until you inform them about it. You can also be the first one to kiss and then inspire them to kiss you back. Unless you communicate your needs to them they have no way to know about it. It would be wrong to presume that they will understand about your need without you communicating it to them.
Explore other ideas: If your partner is a bad kisser then for the time being you may avoid kissing them during love making. Set a rule that they can’t kiss you on the mouth. Rather, explore the other body parts. It may allow you some break from the sloppy kisser and add some extra dimension to your relation.
Experiment together: Try some new ideas together. It will be fun and at the same time will allow you to improve your relation. Let your partner know that you don’t like their ways of kissing but at the same time tell them that you are up for experiments. This will keep them interested in the relation and will also convey the message that you like them despite their sloppy kissing style.
Be patient: When it comes to deal with a sloppy kisser, patience is the key. One can always master the art of kissing through practices. Don’t criticize your partner. It may only drive them away. Rather, encourage them on the act. Communicate your needs strictly and help them achieve the target.
Kissing is an art and to master the art of kissing all you need is practice. Try out new techniques and introduce variety to your kisses. Open up your mind to the new ideas. Relax with your partner and build up the ambience before taking on the endeavor.
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