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How To Date Your Ex's Best Friend

Posted on :2013-03-19 in

A lot of people find themselves developing feelings easily for those who are close to them in their breakup phase.

It if is you ex bestfreind’s for whom you have fallen for because he offered his shoulders to cry for you during your break up then you might have a hard time.

It can be difficult to deal with a situation where the other person on whom you get a crush on is none other than the one who is also the best buddy of your boyfriend. You can learn a few effective and simple tips to handle the situation when you enter into a relationship.

Get your message across

If you have developed feelings for the best friend of your ex then you need to convey it to him/her right away. You can get your message across quickly to the best pal of your ex and see if he/she holds the same feelings for you. It is good to be frank in matters of the heart as hiding this fact from him/her for long might make you lose him/her to someone else.
 

How To Date Your Ex's Best Friend

Ascertain the feelings of ex’s best friend

When you consider professing your newfound feelings for your ex best friend then you should also check if he/she has the same feeling for you. If the ex has provided you with comfort during your break up patch then that should not necessarily lead you to conclude that he/she has deep feelings for you. It might be only out of humanitarian grounds or only as a courtesy to help out someone else in their bad times that prompted him/her to be close to you during your breakup. Try and find out the actual feelings of your ex’s best friend.  

Keep in hush-hush for a while

Entering into a relationship with best friend of your ex may not be seen very well in your circle of friends or in your newfound love interest’s social circle. Therefore, you can consider keeping your love for each other under wraps. Going public with your relationship with the best friend of your ex might invite undue attention. The growing bond of love between you and your ex is sure to raise eyebrows. People might judge you in an unfair manner if you are too quick to enter into a relationship with your ex’s best friend. In case, you are not ready to face the unwarranted attention then keep it private.  

Be Calm and Composed

When you do not care abut people raising their eyebrows for rushing into a relationship with the best friend of a boyfriend then show a cool attitude. Keep a calm and composed nature when people start asking you questions or passing judgment against you for dating the best pal of your ex. Be ready to face all kinds of remarks and behavior from others if they disapprove of your new relationship. Avoid losing your cool even if your ex finds out about your relationship with his/her best friend. Reacting on your ex’s remarks for dating his/her best buddy will not aggravate the matter further.
 

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