Sometimes, we may get drawn to people who are close ones of our ex and if this happens then it can be quite a tricky situation. It is not unheard or unusual to develop a deep feeling of liking for ex-boyfreind’s older brother.
There are several girls, who feel fearful in owing up to the fact that they get the hot for someone who is a cousin or even his own brother but it is not an uncommon phenomenon.
Things can take a messy turn if situation is not handled adeptly but yes there are quite a few effective tips that you can learn from here if you have consider dating the brother of your ex.
Befriend your ex-boyfriend’s brother
If you want to be in a relationship with someone then it is best to become friends with that person. Befriending them can help you come closer to them. You can also know them better when you become friends with them. You can enter into friendship with them by engaging in a casual conversation when you drop into the home of your ex-boyfriend using some or the other pretext. You can initiate conversation by saying a simple “hello” and then take the conversation forward from there. Engaging in conversations will help you become friends with him and he might be interested to go on a date with you later on.
Be certain that age is not an issue for him
Many a times, older guys are averse to the idea of entering into a relationship with girls younger than their age. You may be in for a bad luck if your ex boyfriend’s older brother belongs to the same category of men, who does not like the idea of being out on a date with younger guys. You may have to drop the idea of dating older brother of boyfriend. Find out if the ex is comfortable being in a relationship with you as he might feel embarrassed for dating his younger brother's ex girlfriend. You need to ascertain if age or embarrassment over dating younger girls is not much of an issue for the one you are eyeing.
Confront him in a straightforward manner
If you have been eyeing your ex-boyfreind’s older brother for quite some time then you can confront him straightforward. However, you will have to be cautious enough before you tell him that you would like to be his dating partner. It might be taken in a bad light as he may assume that you only want him to be his boyfriend because he misses his brother you wants to be in touch with him.
Avoid getting into a scene with his brother
In case you and the older brother of your ex boyfriend decides to date together, it might cause anguish to your ex. Out of sheer jealousy, he may try to get into a scene with you. Avoid getting into a scene with you ex and tell him frankly that you have moved on in life.
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