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How to Date a Shy Girl

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Dating a shy girl may be quite a challenging task if you have an outspoken nature and have never dealt in a relationship with an introvert person.

It might be one of the most fulfilling experiences if you know the right way to deal with a shy girl. There might be initial hassles in the beginning when you start dating such a girl because of her difficulty in opening up to you.

However, you can make your dating sessions fun and successful by learning ways to handle the sensitive nature of relationship with a recluse girl. Here are some quick tips to help you understand and act in the right way when you date a shy girl.

Make her comfortable and connect with her

You need to have patience to date a shy girl as she might take a lot of time to come out of her shyness and act behind her personal inhibitions. You need to make her comfortable to help her open up to you. However, do not take her shyness as a rude reception because she may not be high-headed it is only her introvert nature that resists her from opening up to others. Do not mistake her shyness for rude behavior or her arrogance. Instead be understanding and help her come out of the inhibitions to connect with you during date.
 

How to Date a Shy Girl

Initiate conversations

In most cases, it is the women who do most of the talking in a date. However, if you are dating a shy girl then men should know beforehand that they will have to do the chatting. Shy girls are not much talkative and they might take sometime to initiate or indulge in conversations. You need to do the talking and initiate discussions to establish comfort between you both so that she could open up to you during the next date sessions. Striking up subtle and engaging conversations will help a shy girl to come close to you. Avoid indulging in flirtatious and hurtful discussions that might make her conscious or feel awkward.

Give her personal space

A thumb rule, which you ought to keep in mind while dating a shy girl, is to give her lot of personal space to help be comfortable when you are around her. Being shy, a girl will not find it easy to share a good comfort zone with you unless you make her feel secure and safe with you. Avoid encroaching on her personal space or touching topics and past wounds that would hurt her ego and pride. She might never open up to you if attempt is being made at intruding into her domain.

Be gentle

If you want to floor the shy girl with your charm then make sure you are not too hard on her. Act like a gentleman around her to woo her and make her comfortable. If there is something that your girl avoids then do not be too pushy. Your shy girl will not react openly but you need to learn to understand the subtle hints from her body language and work along it to establish a firm relationship.

AAPOD : 02/04/2013
 

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