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How to Break Up with a Long Distance Girlfriend

Posted on :2012-09-27 in

When you know that there is no longer the passion in your long distance relationship with your girlfriend then it is best to share your feeling with her.

Tell her honestly about how you feel for the long distance relationship if you think it has started becoming more as a binding restriction and you want to break free from the ties. No matter, how many years of love and labor you both have given to nourish this long-distance relationship, it is always wise to inform at the right time about your decision to break up if you feel that you could no longer feel the same about your girlfriend.

It is never an easy task to break ties with once you have been in a relationship for long but you can use these simple tips to ensure a smooth, problem-free break-up.

Call Her

Given that you are in a long distance relationship with your girlfriend, she is most unlikely to be present in person before you if you have made up your mind to end the relationship. You can give her a call and inform her about your decision to quit the long-distance relations. Breaking up over text messaging or by email may not be a good idea if your girlfriend stays far off as this might be impersonal and leave a constant reminder of the breakup. Choose a right time to make the call to make sure that she gets enough privacy to cope up with emotional turmoil that she would experience after the breakup news.
 

How to Break Up with a Long Distance Girlfriend

Explain your reasons clearly

Before you decide to speak to your girlfriend about your decision to break up, run things over in your mind and figure out the root cause for which you want to end the relationship. Be honest and clear when stating the reasons before your girlfriend. If you have not been finding it easy to maintain a long-distance relationship for some time then admit to the problem.

Hear her side of the story

Once you have conveyed your decision to call off your long-distance love relationship with your girlfriend, do not simply hang up. In stead try and pay heed to what your girlfriend has to say about it. It will be insensitive on your part if you choose to end the conversation only after conveying your decision and show unwillingness to listen to her side of the story. Give her a chance to explain herself if you are breaking up because of her actions that you did not like. Hearing her out will at least provide your girlfriend the assurance that she has put forth her explanation to save the relationship. 

Be ready to reply

Breaking up is never easy and it may leave the other person in a state of emotional turbulence. A lot of questions fill up the mind of the other person and there may be extreme range of reactions that your girlfriend would feel like blurting out after the break up. However, do not act like a coward and face the situation once you have made the declaration from your side to break up the long-distance.
 

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