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How to Break Up through Text Messaging

Posted on :2012-10-17 in

Although breaking up with someone you had once loved with all your heart is difficult but you need to move on if you think it is best for you as well as the other person.

There are several ways of conveying your decision to call it quits and breaking up over the text among them is one of the popular methods that most couple is resorting to these days. Informing the other person about the break up over the text is an easy way when you do not want to be engaged in a face-to-face breakup argument or are too chicken to say it on the face. It allows you to cut-off your bond with quickness.

Text messaging about breakup is also a better idea when you know that you might end up being emotional and revert under the influence of the other person, who is a smooth talker and convincing.

Be sure

Before your jump the gun and start typing the message to inform the other person about the breakup, think it over in your mind whether ending the relationship is all that you really want to do. You have to be very sure about your feelings before you send a text message. If you are in double-mind then it is best to take some time out to assess your feelings and ditch the idea of breaking up over text messaging.
 

How to Break Up through Text Messaging

Be brief

Text messages are better when they are kept short. Although you have many things to say for breaking up with your boyfriend/girlfriend and you want to blurt out all the feelings, remember text messaging is not the right platform to do so. You cannot go on and on writing about your feelings and reasons for terminating the relationship. Moreover, the person at the other end will also not to like to receive a length message about the breakup. So be precise about breakup and send across a quick text message.

Do not flood the inbox with break up messages

Once you have made up your mind to get your boyfriend/girlfriend out of your life, be sure that he sent across your decision through a quick message. A single message is enough to convey your decision to end the relationship. If you want to add a few reasons to justify your decision then you can consider sending 2-3 messages but at best avoid flooding the inbox of the other person with your breakup messages. It will be foolish to drag on the subject of breakup over messages so at best restrict yourself to 1-2 messages to get your decision across quickly.

Choose your words carefully

Whether there have been recent spats and disagreements with your lover and for which you are breaking up, it is wise never to turn rude, impolite and argumentative when conveying your decision through text message. No matter how the relationship has been in the past, good, bad or worst, is to not a good idea to turn too personal when sending a text message of breaking up. Remember that text messages can be forwarded to other people and hence be sure about everything you want to write when you send across a text for breaking up.
 

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