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How to be a Good Matchmaker

Posted on :2012-07-10 in

Matchmaking is an interesting task but it is not always fun to make two unknown people come together and enter into a love relationship. A lot of people these days are taking it as a profession.

 

Some achieve success but a few of them fail as they are unable to play the role of a matchmaker to perfection. It takes a great deal of work to set up two people to get into a loving bond that can last for a lifetime. The art of bringing two people get into a mutually lovable relationship needs to be perfected if you are to be a good matchmaker.

 

There are a few simple things that you should bear in mind in order to be discharge your duty perfectly as a matchmaker.



Avoid being Judgmental

If you want to be a perfect matchmaker then make sure that you learn to be non-judgmental. It is not good to criticize the person who has approached you for setting him/her up with someone. Be open to all kinds of people and their ideas so that people find you approachable. There are less chances of a candidate opening up to you if he/she feels that you are too judgmental. Be open-minded as it will be difficult to set up two people if the client is hesitant to express his likings and expectations.
 

How to be a Good Matchmaker

Build Trust

As is the case with any relationship or in any field of work, trust has to be established first in order to command a superior position in the eyes of your clients. Win the trust of your candidates by showing them your genuine attitude to help them find a good match. A client opens up his past and talks about his expectations and likes by placing trust on you. Therefore, it is your duty not to lose his trust by disclosing things that others have no business knowing them.



Know All the Details About Your Candidate

Before you set up two people, it is best to learn all the details required to make their match in order to avoid any trouble in the future. You will definitely not like to be cursed by any of your client’s because of a mismatch. Hence, get an idea of the client’s past and assess his character and personality type to get the right match for him/her. Find out the kind of a partner that your client is looking for to narrow the search for a perfect partner for him. Know his temperament, his weaknesses, aptitude and positive attributes to set up a match that will work best for his needs.



Be upfront and honest with your client

Setting up two people for building a life-long relationship can be a sensitive task. Therefore, it requires you to be honest when dealing with such a task at hand. If you know something about your client that will not work in best favor of the other person with whom you are setting him up with then it is best to discuss this with both parties. Be open to give your client honest suggestions on things he should work upon for attracting a mate.
 

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