How to Avoid Bad Relationships
When in the dating game it is quite a common occurrence to go through break-ups, the kind of relationships where no matter how hard you try you cannot avoid the bitter end, and more often than not, such experiences leave you bitter and cynical about life.
When stuck in such a rut, it is quite important to remember that there is a silver lining to every dark cloud and the only way you can find yourself in the right kind of relationship is by trial and error, for not everyone is lucky to find their soul mate in one perfect go.
So to help you avoid bad relationships, we have for you a few guidelines, which will help you gauge, how a relationship is going to turn out potentially.
- Pay attention to the warning signs, most of the time we miss them and come to realise about them much later, so when you do get that gut feeling that something is not right, you should probably probe further and try to look into it since as they day, better safe than sorry.
Do not make excuses for the harsh treatment that you receive at times, everyone goes through troubles, but you need to learn to love yourself and not give the other person the benefit of the doubt until and unless it is really necessary, you deserve respect and any man who does not understand that does not deserve you.
There exist people in this world, who become close to you but are not always thinking of things that are in your best interest, they might become the keeper of your secrets and then try to use your weaknesses as a weapon and make you do their bidding, do not be gullible and naïve, and do not be taken for a fool, the moment you feel that your partner at hand. Seems like he has ulterior motives, take it as a warning signal and head for the door.
People who try to harp on your insecurities and try to gain your sympathy are the exact kind of people that you need to steer clear of, you need to face the fact that everyone faces troubles in their lives, but everyone learns to fight against adversities too, so if trying to gain your sympathy is the way they hold you ransom and induce pity then it is definitely the kind of relationship that you should try to avoid.
Being guarded doesn’t mean that you have to cold, distant and cynical, many a time you will come across people who are in genuine need of care and attention, and you should at that point of time be emotionally available to them, without being standoffish, so when you feel that the person you are with is in genuine need of help then be by their side, however be cautious as to not over indulge them as it can only lead to much angst and anguish later.
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