With a swarm of men trying to gain the attention of women, it is really important to have an edge and be able to attract attention. However in the competition to get the spotlight, sometimes it can pose to be a problem, as one might come across as really annoying, and that is something that anyone should, and would like to avoid, for the chances for any man who comes across as annoying to be able to grasp attention in a good way is almost next to none.
So to help you in this arena, we have for you a few tips that you can employ to gain an upper hand and attract girls without being annoying, so just scroll on.
- The first thing that you need to do, is try to figure out what are you aiming at, you could be eyeing that one pretty lass or you could be focusing on the womankind in general once that you have figured that out, things get easier from there.
Once you have it figured you focus on the women of your choice, you observe her, not in the creepy stalker like manner but the kind, that you try to gauge, her personality, it is quite effective actually, and sometimes tiny details give away a lot about the personality, so figuring out what your lady likes is the thing you’re looking at.
Once the preparation is done, you want to approach her, do not seem too eager, be calm and composed about it, but do not edge on the overconfident, nonchalant bit too, that can really be a ringer for annoying traits, just try to approach her with a smile and a hello, if she’s approachable, she will welcome your presence, else you do have your cue to either leave or persevere a tad bit more.
If she is in a group, then you need to mingle around a bit, try to find common grounds and do not single out attention on her, that would probably be a dead giveaway and can actually cause much embarrassment later, so once you have managed to form what can be a called a sociable group, you are then ready for the singling out phase that has been described above.
Now that you have managed to buy some one on one time, do not panic, by her habits and her interaction with her friends you can actually deduce a quite a bit about her, you can try to make friendly talk and try to find things that are common between the both of you, try to make a light hearted conversation and you are good to go, do not let the jitters get to you, just be cool and confident about it.
Once you get to know her then is the time that you want to cement things even further, you can ask her out for a coffee or a movie, something that you know she would be interested in, and seems to be harmless, you can build on things from there and of course once you two each other, things can only get better.
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