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Posted on :2012-05-24 in

The single scene is tough to be a part of sometimes – with so many people looking, you often end up talking to someone entirely different than the hottie you wanted to. 

 

In order to sprint to the top of the mountain, you have to know how to attract a guy in public.  You can opt for the most revealing outfits, of course, yet the good guys are going to find that more of a turn off than a turn on.

 

Instead, you want to appear sophisticated and mysterious, which is why these six tips will make you the object of his desire.

 

Tips to Attract a Guy in Public

Flirt with Your Eyes

So much of our thoughts are communicated with our eyes, we often forget they are the single most alluring feature we have.  Think about it: most of the time, when you feel the charge of electricity between you and a guy, it’s all in the eyes, right?  Connect there first and think your most inviting thoughts.  Chances are he’ll come on over.

 

Smile a Lot

After your eyes, your smile will be the second thing he notices, which is exactly why you will want to show it to him often.  Regardless of where you go on the planet and no matter what culture you are in, a wide grin is the start of many successful relationships – it shows you’re friendly.  How can he resist?

 

Go Up and Talk to Him

On the off chance you have noticed the shy type, you might have to make the first move.  What you can do, instead of feeling acting the fool and tossing out a sharp one-liner like, “I really think you are the hottest thing walking,” is introduce yourself and ask a question.  Even a simple thing, such as how he knows the host of the party or how his day went, can get things rolling.

 

Discuss Common Interests

Once you know a little bit about each other, you can focus on what you share.  If you both enjoy reading history books, you can compare notes on your recent favorites.  Like a particular cuisine?  Talk about your favorite restaurants.  If you are unable to find something quickly, then learn more about what he enjoys by asking for more information.  He will love being the center of your attention.

 

Laugh at His Jokes

Much like smiling, a good laugh between people breaks down walls faster than most anything.  When he tells a joke, be sure to chuckle along with him – just don’t go overboard.  Some ladies, despite the best of intentions, make an Oscar-worthy production out of laughing with him.  If you are genuine, he’ll be like putty in the palm of your hands.

 

Give Him a Hand

After you have developed a little bit of rapport, it’s time to really seal the deal with some affectionate touch – but not like you think.  Let’s say, for example, you notice he’s coming to the end of his drink and want to go with him and continue your conversation. 

Gently tap him on the elbow and say, “Why don’t we get you another?”  Once the physical barrier between the two of you is broken, you shown him you are as interested in him as he is in you – and a first date will likely follow!


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