How to Attempt to Know Someone
If you are planning to go for a serious relationship with an individual, you must possess a fair idea about his true persona and real characteristics.
Relationships today are becoming increasingly complicated and often we encounter confusions and misunderstandings with people with whom we are interacting. Sometimes we develop closer tie-ups with some of them whereas others remain just like strangers to us.
So how to attempt to know someone? Here are few tips:
- Conversation is the key- Conversations and interactions are the key factors to know the true characters of an individual. The more you talk, with him/her, the better you get exposed to his/her mindset. It is true that a quality conversation is enough to know a person than spending years with him/her. Let the person speak out more and you remain a silent listener, you will be able to deduce a lot about what he/she is from within.
Ask questions- if you are not asking, you are not knowing! It is the bottom line of any relationship on earth. In case while interacting with the person you have some doubts/questions regarding his behavior/gestures/conversations, clear It then and there by asking logical and smart questions. Analyze his answers and think deeply regarding the superficial meaning if any. You will move one step ahead of knowing him/her better.
Observe gestures- Sometimes actions speak a lot more than words. See how he/she treats others in public or in private places, especially when you are trying t know a guy, see how he behaves with other women, you can understand a lot from his gestures or glances what he up to is!
Spend quality time together- You may get to know someone within an hour of quality time spent together. Longer conversations, logical discussions on sensitive issues and various types of interactions will tell you a lot about that person and his personality.
Meet the family- family background matters a lot to develop one’s mindset. Hit his/her place and check the background, especially if you are planning for a relationship like marriage. The atmosphere of the home, parents and siblings and their behavior, will give you a fair idea about his upbringing. If possible talk to them and know your guy/girl even better.
Meet his friends- A true nature of an individual is understood by the kind of friends he/she has. Friends are like mirrors hence don’t forget to check the people with whom he/she hangs out! Sometimes people open up more to them and hence smart conversations with his/her friends will help you to have a better understanding of the true persona of your partner.
Talk about your future of the relationship- sometimes, an individual may seem to be great while talking about other things, but might not be comfortable in future planning in case he/she is not ready for it. If you are planning your future with him/her, don’t hasitate to talk about that. You will understand whether this person is serious about the relation or is just a passing affair for him/her.
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