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How to Ask a Girl Out

Posted on :2012-09-19 in

Do you find asking a girl out a difficult task? Do you think it is not your forte? Think again. Asking a girl out is actually an exceptionally easy task.



The task to ask a girl out is extremely easy once you learn the tricks and master your shyness. Most men try to avoid the task of asking a girl out for the fear of rejection but you’d need to understand that it is only a part of the game.

 

You can’t actually force someone to like you. But you can surely minimize the chances of rejection if you follow our tips. Check out the following easy tips on how to ask a girl out.
 

How to Ask a Girl Out

Muster your courage: It is pretty normal to feel nervous before you ask a girl out for the first time. But this is not the time to suffer from indecision. Muster all your courage and make an approach. If you think you’d need some rehearsal before approaching her you can also practice before the mirror.

Greet her: To begin the conversation, greet her in a cheerful way. You can greet her with a ‘Hi’ or ‘Hello’. When she replies back you may take the conversation further by asking her a question or by complimenting her on her looks. You can use lines like-

‘You are looking beautiful today. Is there anything special?’

Get confidence: As the conversations progresses you’ll gradually become confident with your manner and once you become confident about what you are doing you can try to be little flirty with her.

Take a relaxed stance and crack a joke. At the same time you may pay attention to her reaction to your efforts. If she seems to be interested then only push further. You may take care not to go overboard and also not to annoy her.

Check her interest: When conversing with her take notice of her reactions.

  • Does she really seem to enjoy it?
  • Is she smiling too often?
  • Is she making the covert signs of interest?
  • Is she touching you on purpose?
  • Is she making eye contacts?

Girls will throw obvious signs if they are interested in you. Hence, you may pay close attention to her body language. Encourage her to speak and listen intently to her when she does so.

Be supportive: When you are into speaking terms try to impress her by being supportive. Offer her help to carry her books to the classroom or to do her homework. But at the same time don’t overdo it. Wait for the right moment when she really requires your help. Let her request you for help.

Pop the question: Once you both get into the comfort zone it’s time to ask the question. Once you get the positive signs from her, don’t waste time in asking her out. Ask her casually if she would be interested in going out with you.

How to deal with a ‘no’?
Definitely a ‘no’ is not the desirable answer. After all your efforts a ‘no’ is very difficult to deal with. But you can’t force anyone to like you or go out with you, and hence, you also need to prepare yourself to deal with a ‘no’. Following are the tips to help you deal with a negative reply to your request.
 

  • Don’t lose your cool.
  • Avoid pleading. If she is not interested in going out with you take it sportingly.
  • Don’t hang around. Create an impression as if you don’t need her.
  • Don’t be too harsh with her.
  • Carry on with life.
  • Don’t lose confidence. You may find success next time.

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