It is not uncommon to fall for a new hunky guy who has shifted to your neighborhood. Summarily, you may go weak in the knees every time a handsome colleague who has joined work gives a glance at you. You may feel like expressing your feelings to the dude but your worries and negative thoughts may hold you back.
In most cases it is a mixture of fear of refusal and ego that holds a woman back. However, you can override your negative thoughts with careful planning and garner enough confidence to ask the hunky man out for a date. You need to be consistent and steadfast in your preparation.
Boost your confidence and tackle the fears
Before you can approach the handsome guy who gives you Goosebumps it is important that you overcome your fears and boost your confidence. While there may be prettier woman than you, you can surely do your bit to appear presentable and smart. You should remember that men with some grey matters in their brains do not go only for looks when it comes to fairer sex. It is important that you can express your characteristic traits and charms with your words, demeanor and even smile to create lasting impression on that guy.
Do some research and prepare the ground for approach
Not every man likes the same things when it comes to women. You can observe the guy for some days if possible to get an idea about his likings and dislikes. Some men have penchant for sports while there are others who are into music, dance, technology and even pets. If there is some common interest, you can use that to your advantage in this situation. Based on your station and proximity to him, you can let him know about your interest in such matters which may make him feel like interacting with you. This can be a good way to strike a conversation.
Learn to maintain balance while approaching
When you develop a basic rapport with the man who has caught your fancy, you may ask him out for a cup of coffee or snacks. However, it is important that you do not go overboard and maintain a balance while doing so. If the guy thinks you are too eager, it may not be good for longevity of your dreams about him. It would be ideal to drop the offer in a casual way when you are discussing a topic. You can also offer him a number of options to make things easier for both.
Maintain a little distance when you meet
You may be all set to meet the man you have a crush on and feel anxious about his feelings. However, do not let your eagerness reflect on your face or body language. Even when you are with him or both of you are relaxing with common friends, maintain a little distance. This is psychologically effective as men do not tend to take women who show much eagerness about them seriously.
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