How to Act when Your Boyfriend Tells You That You're Beautiful
A woman always feels great when they hear from someone on how beautiful they look and more so when it is their boyfriend, fiance or husband who says them so. The happiness that she feels on being praised about her gorgeous looks shows clearly on the face of a woman. However, at the same time, a lot of girls get tongue-tied when they are being told by their boyfriend how attractive they are.
Although a boyfriend’s statement on how good you look should bring on a special feeling and a sense of delight but it can also evoke a weird reaction when said all of a sudden. Often girls do not know how to react when complimented about physical appearances. If you too are clueless about the ideal reaction to give to such a comment then reading this write-up might help you.
Taking a pause on being complimented about looks can disrupt the flow of the conversation. Keeping your boyfriend waiting for a reply and then changing to another topic to talk about without giving a suitable response is highly unimpressive. Your boyfriend might actually get pissed off if you rush off or get stuck in the middle of a conversation while responding to his comment on your good looks.
An awkward reaction might actually make your boyfriend feel strange and discourage him from complimenting on your physical attractiveness the next time. So make sure that you act the right way and do not stammer or run away when your guy actually waits for a reaction from you on being praised for your looks.
The first thing to know when giving a reaction in response to the praise of your boyfriend about your looks is not to negate his comment. When your guy tells you how beautiful you look, do not say “I am not.” It is not an ideal reaction to contradict the opinion of your boyfriend as saying that you do not look beautiful will make you sound under-confident. Men do not like to be with girls who are not sure about their physical charm. Therefore, try not to appear as timid and self-doubting when you hear these words- “You are beautiful.”
Men do like women who are aware about their attractiveness and can use their charm to their best possible extent but at the same time they do not like to date someone who sounds big-headed. A lot of girls get overexcited and end up saying something really silly when they hear how charismatic and gorgeous they are from their boyfriend. Flattering words can make a woman say or do something unwanted. Therefore, do not let praiseworthy words make a fool out of yourself by acting dull and dim-witted when giving a reply to the compliment about your good looks. Try to maintain a composed and elegant attitude rather than appearing as snooty and arrogant when paid the compliment about your beautiful looks.
Another mistake that most women often commit when they are admired for their good looks is they try and fish for more compliments when they get one from their boyfriend. Men do not like to shower too much of praises without any valid reason and making your man say more in praise of your physical charm might just put him off. Seeking more attention might put your boyfriend under pressure to say more nice things about you out of no choice. All of the flattering words that he might say just to add to his comment of your being beautiful might not be true. Seeking too much attention than required will make your boyfriend feel pressurized to pay you more compliments and he is unlikely to tell you how beautiful you are the next time out of the fear that he needs to give you more.
Saying that you know how good looking and attractive you are on being admired for your beauty by your boyfriend will make you appear pompous and over-confident. It is never a good idea to say things like –“I know I am beautiful” and “Everyone says that I am beautiful” in front of your boyfriend when he genuinely means that you are attractive. Giving such a smug response will hurt your man and make him feel that his view about your charm holds little value. You are unlikely to hear such a good compliment from your boyfriend again if you make him feel unappreciated.
The best way to react to a compliment paid on your physical beauty by your boyfriend is to thank him and return the compliment by saying something really nice.
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